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ChaCha, my love...just so you can get a laugh too...according to STBXH I'm lesbian, living with my lesbain lover! LMAO <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Frog- YOu crack me up! Goofball! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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If the world was true "according to your STBXH" we would all be in a world of trouble, Rin!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Can you imagine! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Plus...(pout) I thought I was your lesbian lover!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
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Woohoo! CJ, I didn't know YOU WERE SWEETE on me like that! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I'll take you too! My goal in life is to have a harem! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> BC, Frog, Chris...you guys can all sign up too! I know that your femine side is lesbain too! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Hey! Leave my Virginia out of this <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
Edited for Rin the Church Lady.
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
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But what about your nipples?
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Thinking about piercing them, along with my Virgina.
Edited for your protection.
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AHHHH, Beau? Please answer SD's question... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> LMAO...I can't talk about my nipples right now!!! I can't let ALL MY secrets out here! Right? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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Well, it would appear that my masculine side is GAY! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> VERY gay! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> And my masculine side's NIPPLES are sticking to the wind, thank you very much! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />
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Hey guys - I don't dare read at work with this kinda stuff going on! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> I mean really! First Pep's nippies to the wind - and then pierced vaginas (makes me acquire a permanent wince), etc.! Hopefully those H/R I/T guys won't go looking at my web history and see what's there now! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
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Cafe Plan B link http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2182650&page=1 The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"? The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!" If you're interested in saving your relationship, you'll work on it when it's convenient. If you're committed, you'll accept no excuses.
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Okay, let's tone it down...this is a marriage building site!
BC- can you edit your post on your femine part please? I'd appreciate it! I'm SURE that you can come up with something else...
Oh, F's thumb is just sprain...time, that's all he needed...
Dentist appts. today at two...L's first one! Yeah!
As far me, I'm doing okay...was thinking this morning of calling STBX...you all know that I won't...nevertheless, i was thinking about it...
He had told me that he didn't want to the kids through a fight...I guess he wanted me to just hand them over...
Anyway, I wanted to call him and ask him "I thought that you didn't want to put the kids through a custody fight?"
I want to tell him that he is SOOO out of his mind and ask why would the court give YOU custody?
Just to hear what he has to say! I'm sure that it would be interesting to say the least!
Well, looks like I'm going to have to have one of the kid's call again to see if he's going to be picking them up Friday. Better to have them call him than calling my lawyer to call his lawyer to call him...then reversing the cycle...eating up money...
Just a little down today...nothing major... was typing up some notes on the kids...good for me, but so depressing that STBX doesn't know any on this stuff...and to think he believes that he's such a great father!
Like so many here, not for a R, but I wish he would wake up and really see what's he's done, doing...just a fantasy on my part...wishful thinking...
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Morning Rin, Just wanted to say hi (waving) Sorry you're not having a good day. My day is starting out that way. I shouldn't of read my horoscope. Stepped on a nail this morning looking for the water pump in the garage WH had planks of wood with nails sticking out. Of course I thought geese I better be careful I don't want to step on any nails <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" /> Seeing the doctor this afternon, but feeling pretty fragile lately and cried because I so want someone to comfort me and where is WH? Still
BW me 46
WH 46
Together 28 years married 23
3 Kids DD20, DD17 and DS 14
DD #1 (1st A) 10/13/01 with single OW who was co-worker
DD#2 1/23/02 phone call from OW
WH left job 4/02
MC 10/01 to 4/02 (when he showed up)
Separated 7/04 to 10/04
Retrouvaille 9/04
Red Flags 11/05
DD#1 (2nd affair) 8/16/06 with MOW age 29 twice married and he's her boss.
Moved out (him) weekend after labor day
23rd anniversary 10/7/07
Filed 10/18/06 still seeing MOW
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Ow...i hope that it's not too bad! let us know what happens...
As far as Wh, this too shall pass...one day at a time...
i know sometimes that doesn't help...but there is a means to an end...what's important now, IS YOUR RECOVERY...
keep the focus on you!
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Editing is complete. Now to stir a new pot. Still, Get word to your WH that you got nailed in the garage. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> just might save your M. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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BC,
You had me laughing a good 5 minutes..... that just might saave my marriage.
Still Laughing (maybe my new name some day)
Still
BW me 46
WH 46
Together 28 years married 23
3 Kids DD20, DD17 and DS 14
DD #1 (1st A) 10/13/01 with single OW who was co-worker
DD#2 1/23/02 phone call from OW
WH left job 4/02
MC 10/01 to 4/02 (when he showed up)
Separated 7/04 to 10/04
Retrouvaille 9/04
Red Flags 11/05
DD#1 (2nd affair) 8/16/06 with MOW age 29 twice married and he's her boss.
Moved out (him) weekend after labor day
23rd anniversary 10/7/07
Filed 10/18/06 still seeing MOW
Dropped divorce complaint 6/7/07
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Okay, I have both kids with me at work...I know that I know..that woman told me that those boys had an appt. today...
Well, it's next Tues...I got off the phone with her and went straight to my boss and talked to her about today! So, I checked F out of school and picked L up...
I am so run down...well, I feel that way...
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OK, time for those boys to man up
F give your mama a shoulder rub
L give your mama a back rub
tell her she's gonna make it b/c you're gonna help her.
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wrong answer
F, on your knees
Rin, go sprinkle some rice on the floor
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