Ummm being from Missouri I had to look up what a nutria is.....I just found out that is a rat the size of a small dog, and that people actually eat its meat. There was an interesting reference to their useful and edible parts including testicles and an anal gland they use to make lip balm <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

"In addition to direct environmental damage, coypu are the host for a nematode parasite (Strongyloides myopotami) that can infect the skin of humans. When this happens the condition is called "nutria itch."" Thank you Wikipedia for enlightening me! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> LOL BC.

Remember Rin you are a goddess. Time to call in the "Verminator" (otherwise known as your attorney). <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I agree with what everyone has said. The court system likes consistency with kids, they are not going to upset your DS and put them in a situation that is radically different from what they are used to. POWS doesn't have a prayer. Have a good weekend.

LMAO...finally able to get online...

Blahhhhhhaahahahah...LL, such about BC will definitily have YOU enlighted...

I'm done with the chipper too, you are more than welcome to have it... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Bugs- Natria are far from being endangered...POWS on the other hand is sooooo a thing of the past for me...

How stupid is he? I tell you what as the days go by in this D, I wonder WHAT I EVER saw in him in the first place...

And on that powder or cream, we will have to ask our Pharm. Repre., LL, do they make a cream or something for that? LMAO



BALHAHAHAHHALALAHALLAHHAHAH...... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Awesome... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I have to share the primary thought that has been going through my mind since...UDMB DUMB DUMB..."the call"...LMAO

POWS is a joke...instead of being mad, and wanting to wink at him in court, I'm going to have a hard time not laughing at him...

It's going to be nice to repay my parents those Attorney fees...

Poor, poor, poor, ignorant POWS...

Studip is as stupid does...

LMAO...Life is like a box of choclates, you never know what you're going to get!

BAHAHAHAHAHA! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Okay, I'm cool...LMAO...no I'm not...LMAO...okay, I'm done! THanks everyone! What a WHOT!

Aloha Strivin,

Saw your pix. U've got a beautiful smile. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Keep it up!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Aloha,
L.

Thank you O! I really appreciate that.

I was thinking that I'm laughing about the sitch but this is probably the time where I should be watching my back the most...

We're getting to the hot point where he could snap and carry out his threats...perhaps not right now, but after the kids are awarded to me...

THe deeper that we get into this D...

But I'm going to try to not focus on that...take one day at a time...

Well, I'm headed to get some sleep...I was actually watchin some TV...not something I do often...

I treated myself to a new pillow today and am loving it! So, I'm going to go snuggle with it! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Just checkin in...being laying around all day for the most part...

Went get a fresh haircut and grocery shopping...that's about it...just watchin TV...dosing in and out of sleep...

And occasionally thinking how stupid is he...one judge already said 7/7 wasn't going to happen...he needs a second opinion to tell him he's a horrible dad?

I always feel better after a hair cut! Sounds like you are having the ideal day!

POWS only needs to look in the mirror, but like Drac, a typical WH can't see their own reflection!

Enjoy your evening!

I have to agree becasue that reflection is based in reality!

Hi, had some TMs with POWS today...

I have the right to remain silent but not the capacity...

me:pls drop the kids @ AC's

POWS:k, i will but it will be early

me:what time

POWS: 4:30ish

me: k, pls send back some nice clothes, hope ur feelin better

POWS:ok i will, pulled sumthing in my back. F is fine takin meds on time. How did u know I was hurt

Me: This is my town, I hear @you all the time, good I was worried about F, later. (i grew up here, POWS is not from here)

POWS: yea whatever who did u run into (i didn't response)

POWS: u seem to know a lot about what goes on in my life for someone who doesn't want to be in it.

Me: I can't control other people

POWS:you say that but u say who told u (i didn't response)

POWS: that's ok keep ur spies but let them know u left me not the other way around (I fell asleep!)

Me: ur a joke a minute, i'm proud i left u and tell em so.

POWS: I'm glad to now i can see ur ture colors thanks for the time but it time to move on

Me: yep, hope ur back feels better.

SO, like I said I have the right to remain silent but not the capacity today!

You sound like the evil sheriff in an old western <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

But he thinks you are interested in him if you talk to him like that...YUCK..

It's giving him a FIX...I think...

YOU DO HAVE THE CAPACITY TO NOT TALK TO HIM..don't sell yourself short that way...

Hi, E...I thought it sounded bad too...TBH

Mimi-I really meant that I didn't have the capacity to tell him that I thought he was a joke...

I have the capacity to not speak to him, that's not a problem...

Well, I went to my aunt's early today and painted..she was working on something for her daughter, so I got a canvas and started a picture...I didn't get to finish it before the kids got there but spent a few hours working on it...

I haven't painted in years...so it was nice and then I got to hang out with my aunt...that was really good...

On another note, I did get the kids back early and both spent the night at one neighbor's house and the next just F spent the night...

They had a littel b-day party or something...brought presents home, F said they didn't get anything from their dad...or he didn't think so...POWS truck is in his hometown getting the windows tinted...AMAZING!

So, the was in Step BIL's truck went he dropped the kids off...

This is a man who wants 7 and 7...a joke I tell you...As far as the TMs earlier today, it was good for me to let him know that I think that he's a joke...

I probably won't hear from him again until his weekend...

Rin,

You know I love ya to death,,, we are fellow Angels, but WTF?

What's up in engaging in the TM thing with POWS? Come on girl! You know better than that!

What happened to us sittin on the the dock of the bay chillin' out?

Quit feeding his habit of conflict. You are Sooo beyond that. GODDESS mode,,, remember???

You sound like you are PLAYING some sort of FLIRTATIOUS GAME with him.

You want to HEAR from him AT ALL?

You want to CONTINUE with this?

It does not seem funny to me, Rin..SORRY..

BUGS-I got it...I got it...refocusing...refocusing...

I just want soooo bad to do a little fu plan right now, and I know that I can't, so that's what I came up with...

I will stand firm and not do it again to the best of my ability...or you can cane me!

Hey BUgs, pass me a 'ght'...or do you have something a little fruity? Fruity but with a punch?

Thanks for the kick in the butt, I appreciate it, I have been feeling bad about it a tiny tiny bit today...committee in my head...especially not with gettin the kids back, hearing about everything...

MImi- No, I don't want to continue with this...I was talking to a friend earlier and I have to go dark, really really dark...this is killin' me...

TBH, I'm still really really really hurt...draggin this court case out, livin in someone else's house, it's all wearing on me and I'm hurt...I want to lash out back at him...and I can't...and I know that I can't...

I can't stand him or the choices that he's making...he's telling the his lawyer one thing and doing another, example returning the kids early...

That's why I went to my aunt's today to do some painting...just me, a canvas, and some paint...something to keep my mind off the sitch...

I rested this weekend but it wasn't a good weekend...last night I went to the bookstore and got some word/number searches, and some simply wordfill books to do...

Right now, I feel lost...no direction to my life...limbo...I'm living in limbo...and it's his fault...

Yes, I said his fault...b/c I couldn't handle living with the [email]cr@p[/email] he was doing...

whatever...I don't know...

Malibu rum + cranberry juice + pineapple/orange/banana juice

Add ice

drink up

Listen to Fernando/SirMixALot - that is a great recipe!

Ok, now that you own up to it, I will back off a bit

I DO understand your frustration.

You ARE entitled to it!


Just hold on a bit longer - I PROMISE you can do a proper plan FU WHEN the time is right

So, how about u focus on Planning for that?

my list of nicknames continues to expand <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Hi, I lost my internet connection AGAIN...right after I posted...so I went to bed...

HEY, I SLEPT from 10:30 to 1..HURRAY...I got up to put the clothes in the dryer, eat me a bowl of cereal...my new nighttime snack...better than snickers! Whole grain's the best!

ANyway...E that sounds really fruity...i got two of the three right now...can we sell that as the new smoothie? Do you think that they would go for it? :::shrugging:::

BUGS, you can keep comin at me...I'm wonderin how to deal with these feelings without stuffin them and it's not like I feel like I can deal with them with the kids always around...

I've worried a few thimes in the past week or so about being a bitter person, a vergeful person...but I want to hurt him like he's hurt me...and I allow it...

This whole court thing is him carrying out all those threats before I left..."he'd rather go to jail than give me anything"..."burn the house down"..."I'm not getting the kids"..."I'm not getting the house."..."He'll be [email]d@mned[/email] if another nam lives in his house!" blah, blah, blah..

I know that at every corner of this it's going to be drag out to the extreme...but it still surprises me that he's not even listening to his lawyer and "has" to be ordered by the court system before "he accepts it"...

WHY? Because I don't own anything, he's the one that's worked so hard...not like I haven't worked full-time since college, and contributed almost AS much to our finanaces as he has...nope, it's his, his, his...

It amazes me that he's draagging this out and his lawyer's no havin a cow...once again he's ALL lip service...talks the talk but can't handle the responsiblity...and I have to laugh...because of the sitch...I look at the things that he's doing and think "I married this idiot, I took care of his @ss for 14 years and never once did I see how studip he was!"

I had the blinders on and just accepted whatever was thrown my way by him, tolerated more [email]cr@p[/email], mostly him doing WHATEVER HE WANTED WHEN HE WANTED...you know "b/c he wasn't going to kiss my @ss"

How could I have stayed with this man as long as I did...wishing and hoping...living in denial...thinking: oh, he;ll calm down when he gets older!...

SO, this is where I really am...tears rollin down my face...admitting where my heart really is...

It even hurt to look at the kids tonight...and I just thought I wish he would drop dead...

WHat does a person have to do to YOU to feel this way about them? I'd really like to know then I would feel like I have a right to think that way...

Always so chipper, positive, and on the up and up but man this is gettin to me...I'm sure as heck not sorry I am where I am...it's just dealing with some emotions...that's all!

{{{hugz}}},

I know u r having it hard but your spirit is noteworthy. Hang in there a bit more. Maybe one day your H will come back and he s/b and be a better person. Not saying you have t/b there for him but hope he doesn't stay stuck on stupid. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

take care,
L.

Thanks Orchid, I appreciate that...stuck on stupid..that explain him to the tee right now...

I think I need an intermediate to talk to him...he keeps sending the kids back in clothes that are one size to small or mismatched...especially F's pants...I buy the right size and he comes back in the smaller ones...