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Testosterone boys! Testosterone! It ain’t just for nose, ear and back hair anymore!
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Yeah, now that I got that out you won't have to hear it in July...LOL
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Wow. That must be what plan FU is <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids. Plan A Thread Plan B ThreadEphesians 5:25 - Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
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I got the same reaction, when I went off (not quite as bad...I don't think <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> ) two months after D-Day. "I had that coming" was her exact quote. In a way, I think Plan A doesn't sit right with a Wayward one. So when you "let 'em have it" they are allowed to justify a bit....maybe even saying to themselves "I knew they didn't really change....it was all a show, just to win me back." But, if your in Plan B or whatever, it may just not matter...as long as now you stay dark, and show indifference when you are around her.
That nasty resentment bug isn't easy to control...is it?
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I'm picturing Clark Griswold in Christmas Vacation.
I can see it now.
Musta felt goooood.
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2 kids
DDAY May 06
Sometimes waywards can be like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.
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Eph, textbook mon amis
MWIL,
It'll be easier now that I got the poison out.
I actually have a little respect for her b/c of the way she ultimately handled it. I told her so when she called later on.
Maybe now she'll give me my space so I can heal.
BS 33 EXWW 35 DS 5
OM1 9/06 - 03/07
OM2 04/07 - present
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OMG...Well, looks like we've both vented some anger...I WISH I would have chose to do it like you!
I wanted to say more but I've been on the phone ALL morning and dealing with stuff...I'll try to post more later!
A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
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OMG!! That was great. I have done that too and for me, it all got in that thick head.
Good for you! Bet it did feel good!
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Then the time came
When the risk it took
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BC,
Now that is what I call a Plan FUFUFUFUFUFUFU!
Did I get all of those covered?
Good for you!
BS (me)
ExWS -Drac
DD 9
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D Day 11/06
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"You Can't Fix Stupid" - My Mom
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Yippeee for you BC!!!!! You go! I'm getting to that point with my H. Almost went there Mon night, but this peach is just not quite ripe enough yet....but getting there. Three cheers for you from MO! Backbones are handy aren't they!
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WH 45
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DDay 6-1-07
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I'm picturing Clark Griswold in Christmas Vacation.
I can see it now.
Musta felt goooood. BWAAHHAAHHAAA!! I just noticed this. That's what I was going for. Thanks for noticing. Also, I didn't know how that post would go over. I wasn't even sure the moderaters would allow it. Maybe they haven't discovered it yet. So enjoy it while you can! Thanks for all the positive responses. I was speaking for every BS in the world when I was doing it.
BS 33 EXWW 35 DS 5
OM1 9/06 - 03/07
OM2 04/07 - present
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BC, that was so classic I may copy it and read it to my H. No minced words, no extraneous babble. Short, sweet (to you) and spicy!
I've been feeling that way all morning and trying to be a good little plan A girl. I'm so sweet I think my teeth are rotting! Need some of that cajun mouthwash!
On another note. I've got a thread out there "I lost it" that isn't getting much traffic/reply and I really need some answers, how do I change the name or do whatever to get from here to there?
BS Me 48
WH 45
Married 7-10-04
DDay 6-1-07
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HALLALUJEH...HOLY [censored]...
WHere's the Tylenol...
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HALLALUJEH...HOLY [censored]...
WHere's the Tylenol... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
M2L
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The anger bank overfloweth. You responded to me when I talked about "banking anger," but I never really considered the concept of an Anger Bank (inverse Love Bank). I wonder if the Harleys have thought about it. Each stupid thing that the WS does makes a deposit in the Anger Bank.
I'm sure it felt good to get it out, and since [I think] you have largely written off the M, a good ol Plan FU doesn't hurt anything. What did you have to lose? It might even help.
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I was speaking for every BS in the world when I was doing it. Should have recorded it. Then we could put 20,000 waywards in an arena and play it over the jumbotron at full volume. Let them sit and listen to it for 8-10 hours. Better still, one wayward at a time and 19,999 BS's cheering every FU!
Testosterone boys! Testosterone! It ain’t just for nose, ear and back hair anymore!
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This Sunday only "FU Palooza" staring the BS.
Would be a sell out.
Last edited by Maybe2late; 06/06/07 01:02 PM.
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Thank you everyone. It feels great to know that all this anger is .... ok. I bounce between that and tears. I'm still new at this and have a long way to go. Ouch.
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WH 45
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DDay 6-1-07
DS13 (my star, his step)
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Hope,
I'm not an expert, just one of the class clown's. I'll go check out your thread and post a little more there.
Thanks for stopping by. You can always come here to cut up. That's why I started this thread. Not trying to save the M anymore. Just like to cut up here while I recover.
BS 33 EXWW 35 DS 5
OM1 9/06 - 03/07
OM2 04/07 - present
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Here's some cut up fodder for those (like me) who get clobbered for snooping, I see it this way:
If H and I are asleep and he gets up and leaves our cozy bed and I smell [censored] and it's strong and vile and I pull back the covers to air the gaseous remains of a questionable diet and find....oh my no....solids. It was good housekeeping on my part, not snooping.
BS Me 48
WH 45
Married 7-10-04
DDay 6-1-07
DS13 (my star, his step)
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