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BC thanks for the post on my thread. Please stay in contact, your advice makes sense and your experience is valued, appreciated and unfortunately earned. Warmest regards to you sir.


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That is hysterical! And so true!

I have been yelled at for snooping, but it is necessary.


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Try and re-create your outburst, and video tape it.....then put it on YouTube!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


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I wish somebody would've taped it. I'll never be able to recreate the passion.

Although I did get some new material from one of the guys last night.

When I told about her saying she was fighting for her rights to the house b/c her name was on it, despite not paying any bills or mortgage. One guy said, Well her names on the marriage licence, I don't see her fighting for that.

I said, [email]D@mn[/email] it! Now I've gotta go start another fight so I can use that!


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OOOOHHHHH!!!!!! GOOD ONE!! Can I use it too??


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Excellent! Hey, maybe we should start the Smart A$$ quick-start guide to Alien invasions.


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That'd be sweet. I think somebody more dedicated than me should get right on that.

Holy,
We all know that plagerism is ENCOURAGED here at MB's.


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Just popping in to say hi!

Well, and Thank you!


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STBX called this morning. Wanted to know if I could keep DS the week before my trip so she could go see her boyfriend again.

Oh, and he's moving here so she can be with her new "soulmate".

I'm sick of this SH1T!

I put in a call to my A. I want to see if I can go adultery and get this bullchit over with. [censored] HER!!

Now I know why she took the A$$ chewing so gracefully. She wants to keep the peace so I'll babysit while she F*cks OM2.

What a worthless WH0RE!!

I'm officially renaming STBX.
She will now be referred to as [censored] MONSTER!!

So, FM has cut her trip to NH back a week so she can spend it with OM2.

Good News, her trip with DS to NH will be the same week I'm in Denver. So I don't have to miss any time with DS b/c he would have been gone anyway.

I'm glad I got Plan FU out of the way Tues, b/c this isn't really triggering as bad as I thought it would.

Still plenty pi$$ed though


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Oh, the [email]cr@p[/email] of the week uh, Man?

I love the way that WS jump off cliffs! Just seems like they never go "SPLAT!"

I'm sorry that you are having to deal with this too! July can't come fast enough for you huh?

And THEN, THERE'S today, of ALL days...How is that going for you? What are your plans? Going to keep busy, I hope!


((((BC)))))


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Sorry BC. i can't believe she is so open about it.


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I just thought of something.

TODAY'S OUR 11 YEAR ANNIVERSARY!!

FM tells me OM2's moving here on our 11 year anniversary

NIICCEEE!!


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That was why I asked about how you were doing today!


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I am so sorry. I dont even know what to say.

My anniversary is in a couple weeks and I am dreading it.


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{{BC}},

I am so sorry FM is being such an FM!

Drac told me once he'd just gotten back from a 'road trip' and although he didn't say it, I knew it was w/the HO!

WHY do they think it is OK to say this S*it to us?

Once the Marines have finished their mission in Denver and destroy the Alien Queen, you can bring them back with you for Operation FM Destruction!

So,,,as Rin asked, what are you doing today and for the weekend?


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BC - life will slap her in the face hard one day.

Just wanted you to know I'm pulling for you all the way from Wis.


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We can always put into effect OPERATION [email][censored]@SS[/email] KICKIN...

I'll be first on the squat for F'in with my friend!


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((((((((((((BC)))))))))))

Where can I sign up for the A$$ kickin squad???? Been doin the martial arts for 30+ years....got some skills (5'4" 120, don't look like I could sneeze hard....but let me tell ya brother, I sure dig the element of surprise!)

BC, just called you a hero on my thread, I meant that. And you know what the best part is? She is gonna have to deal with God someday....and that ain't gonna be pretty at all.

Hang on brother. I'll keep checking back and praying for you. If I was closer I'd buy you a beer and we would start the Smart A$$ quick-start guide to Alien invasions.

It's going to be ok, I promise.


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Owwww, you're my kind of woman! I'll sign you up! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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Thanks Hope,

S4B's only 4'11" but could take out FM in one blow. So I've got some serious back up around here.

FM's 5'7" 150ish, but she's a Fn coward. attitude with nothing to back it up.

Also thanks to Maybe, Bugs, and Holy.

I'm doing better as the day passes by. I'm pretty busy at work so it's been hard to dwell on it, which is GOOD!

All of your comments are really lifting me up so I can't put into words how much I appreciate it.

Well, I'll try

FANTABULOUS PEOPLE!! I LOVDORE YOU ALL!! AND CHERCIATE YOUR SUPPORTSHIP!!

Hows That?


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