aren't shicoboobs the things you see on bourbon street when you hold the beads out?

Not that I've ever seen that <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

No! No! No! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

You're thinking of chic b**bs, Eph525! Those are ta-tas which are chic. Some may be seen at the Cherry Creek Arts Festival, but they'll be under bohemian-style sleeveless tops--not magically revealed via cajun beads.

Shiskabobs are middle-eastern "meat-on-a-stick" that have been morphed into Midwestern Festival eats.

There IS a difference! Tsk! Tsk!


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AHO --- what part of MO do you live in that you do not know about meat on a stick???

I am in MO, too.

CJ--
Chic b**b!s ! Ta tas! Bwwwhhaa!

Ah, CJ thanks for clearing that up.

Sorry, I must have forgotten after 8 months now <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/teary.gif" alt="" />

TAS TAS TAS...go to CJ detention! Both you and E...

You two need a refresher course!

CJ? Are the models ready?

models? what kind of models?

boobie models? please,please,please,please,please

Now to the weekend.

Fri night I was alone with my beer and cigars. My triggers from the day wore off and the night went by pretty unemotional. I guess I'm really and truly over her. I don't miss her, when I'm around her I'm pretty indifferent, and now the anger's going away. I've said my peace and I'm done. Completely it seams.

Sat- Was supposed to play golf with some buddies. Had a few beers first. Had a few more. Never made it to the golf course. Ended up being a group of guys drinking Broussard,La completely out of beer. It's been a loooong time since I did that and I'm not doing it again anytime soon. I really hate hangovers. Talk about a waste of a day. I had a blast though. I think it was partly me saluting the death of my M. I'm really feeling some closure right now.

Sun- Hung over. Went got DS for the day and couldn't do more than watch him play. Took him to supper at a little diner by the house and then brought him back to FM's. They are going to Texas for a week to visit MIL. I'll have him back for Father's day.

So I'm gonna be all alone this week. I guess it will give me a chance to really get some stuff done around the house.

So nothing REAL exciting happened this weekend. I did have a 48 year old try to take me home last night. I don't remember how, but some kind of way I distracted her and ran like he11. Didn't stop until I was at home and in bed.

Whew! that was a close one.

BC-

Home and in bed with HER!?!??! Did you distract her to RUN OUTSIDE WITH YOU?

I must admit, I am SHOCKED and HORRIFIED!!!

LOL!

Gentlemen (and ladies),

I want to give you a word of encouragement. During the final years of my exM, I was the one with the higher level of desire, and my cheating exH had little or no desire for sex with me. Well...DOH! DUH! He was out there cheating and getting it every way he could! Anyways, I was being turned down all the time--our sex life was mostly non-existent, and I was one frustrated little housewife. Then we got DIVORCED and of course during my singlehood I didn't just sleep around. I believe sex is for marriage and commitment, and I did not have sex while I was single.

So between the end of my M and my singleness that was FOUR YEARS<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> without sex. Yes, you read that right...YEARS!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> The first year was HE77, but each year after that was sort of easier. (I say sort of because the "itch" eased...although I still wanted it and thought about it.) I swear, after a while I figured it had been so long that it was probably broken! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

JUST SO YOU KNOW, it's like riding a bicycle. It may have been a couple years, but once you get on that bike seat and start to peddle, it all comes back to ya. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

So have no fear gentlemen (and ladies). I'm sure that once you're "back in the saddle" you will have no problem telling the chic b**bs from the shiskabobs.





<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> CJ

A girlie goes out of town for a week and all h3ll breaks loose!

BC, I had some similar Plan FU convo's with PWC; never a full Plan FU, because I was still in it, y'know. I saw no reason to keep walking around the truth with him. He left his family, left his son, left his home, left his dogs, left his responisiblity behind. I'm not one to hold my tongue for too long; I just don't have that strength, I guess.

CJ, I didn't do the SF tango for about 8 months during my Plan B. I was getting good at taking care of business, and was even okay with not having the companionship anymore. I was beginning to like just being alone and taking care of me.

Sadmo,

even if she would have followed me home I garauntee you I was in no shape to perform. Problem is, she kept asking me what her name was so now I've got that crazy lady's name stuck in my head for all of eternity.

I'm going back to hangin out in the neighborhood. No strange women and I can walk home when I'm done.

Although I have a concert Wed night and it's 70's cheese so there's gonna be a lot of older women looking for fresh meat.

Lord, give me strength

CJ, you have a saddle on your bicycle? Freak!

Awe, come on, BC, you can be Woody Harrison (?) in the KingPin with the Landlord! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />


\lalalalalallalal/


LMAo <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

and I thought CJ was the freak

-John Alejandro King

I've been sick, busy, and partying. Not a good combination.

I'm feeling better today. I thought today was gonna be the worst, but my dayquil has me feeling fine and my energy's coming back.

In the middle of fighting a bug and working my a$$ off, I had my buddy's concert Wed night. 70's cheese ROCKS. They put on a great show. Speacial appearance by Marc Broussard, who's pretty big on the blues scene.

DS is in Texas with FM visiting STBXMIL. I'll get him back Sat. Sun we're going to a Father's day party at another local celebrity's house, my neighbor's cousin, the legendary Kevin Naquin and the Ossun Playboys.

I'm starting to feel like a band promoter.

I'm doing good though, just busy as he11.

I'll try to check in on some threads later.

Have a good weekend.

Hey, BC, good to hear that you are feeling better...i would hate for you to pas that on to DS...you aren't running a temp are you?

if you are, that you can pass that on to him, I know you probably already know that! LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I really hope that you are feeling better than today, tomorrow fro when you get him back...I hope that he's a handful and trying to keep up with him while your sick will be interesting!

Take care and i'll talk to you soon!

I dunno, Rin, maybe Beau is like guy smiley and he needs the SCQ to tell him about the nuances of fevers and illness and the probablity of passing a virus from the host to another person. I mean, she HAD to tell guy smiley how to clean sippy cups and now how to launder clothes. How could a MAN possibly survive without her knowledge on general childcare and household maintenance. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

Hey, I forgot I had a thread

Thought I'd resurface for a minute before I leave to realize my dream of peeing off a mountain.

I've been extremely busy lately. FM's visiting Soulmate #2 again so I've had DS the last week, works been too busy for me to hang out here all day, and I recieved some interrogatory requests that's taken me all of my spare moments for the last week to complete. FM wants to take care of community property now so she can buy a love shack for her and Soulmate #2 when he moves here (If he moves here). So I've got a foot high stack of financial documents to turn in this week. I'm just about done, will be dropping it off in the morning.

Tonight I'll be cuttin grass, doin laundry and PACKING!! WOOOHOOO!!!

I'M SO FRICKIN READY.

Last night I watched the neighborhood explode with DS. This is the first year that he's old enough to really enjoy it. Until he got tired he didn't shut up about the pretty lights and the boom boom boom and the cool rockets. He clapped for some and laughed at others. He really had a good time.

So my life's moving a long pretty good. On top of everything else going on I've managed to help a friend move, go to Rin's kids Bday party with DS, hang out with my BF and new born daughter, go to guys night out, celibrate the 4th, and now GO ON VACATION.

So wether you save your marriage or not, it gets better. My life is full right now. There's no pain, no rollercoaster, no anxiety, and no DRAMA. I haven't felt this relaxed in years.

Take Care Everybody

Hey BC,

It's all set here in poor Denver. I have a closet full of Bud Light.

I even put on my Beausoleil Live CD yesterday nice and loud in the morning.

See you Saturday!

I need to call the National Broadcasting Service! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

And we want a play-by-play with photos of you guys lettin' loose when you get back BC.