MEDC:

Your up to seven pages now...About time for this thread to get locked.

If you don't question the morality on my part about not telling some guy I slept with his wife, I won't question your morality in knocking up women out of wedlock.

Deal?

LG

Question it all you like hypocrite. The only way to correct what I did was to be a great dad (or marry his mom...which thank God never happened). So, I am a great dad. I didn't spend 4 years cheating on my family and NOW choosing to not inform someone that I harmed them.....

I corrected my mistake to the best of my ability LG...you, on the other hand, continue to choose to harm someone else. Since we live so close, I hope to read someday about how your deeds were found out by the BH and he came looking for you to extract justice. Frankly, IMO, that is what every WS that does not inform the OBS deserves.... it will catch up to you....maybe even when someone sleeps with your Flamingo and decides not to tell you...what goes around will come around...eventually. For your childrens sake I hope that doesn't happen....for you, it would be a valuable lesson.

LG...my son is proud of me and the stands I have taken for him (and the attempts I made to put our family together). If it were solely up to him, he would never speak to his mom again... I do what I can to foster that relationship so long as she is acting responsible.
Your son, on the other hand, would most likely be ashamed at your actions that have harmed his family...and also for your cowardly choice in not telling the OM. Yeah, LG...I have a child out of wedlock....I wouldn't have one if I okayed her getting an abortion (or if I kept my pants zipped up...or if the condomn did its job)... I didn't and have fought for my son ever since. Gee, LG... how many dads do you know that have full costody and the mom has only supervised visitation... I think I must be doing something right...heck, I was even provided a foster child. I wouldn't even let you baby sit my child with your lack of morals and a willingness to hurt someone else.

MEDC, the only people who ever questioned my use of the words "black"; "white" and "colored" more than a YEAR ago were Mimi and Pep, but they NEVER...I will repeat...NEVER called me "racist". I explained to them back then in what context those words are used in my country and how it can be interpreted differently by people in the US and others who are not living in my country, and after that explanation no one EVER questioned that ever again except YOU yesterday...

Not IF you are wrong MEDC...you ARE wrong. Don’t MINIMIZE your behavior MEDC! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

I'm sorry but I don't accept your apology... I would have accepted it if I knew you meant it sincerely but unfortunately I know you don't. I KNOW you've made that hateful statement to HURT me MEDC and that again shows a lot about you character (or lack of character)...It’s really a habit of yours to attack people and call them names (which are against the rules of posting on these boards by the way). I've really lost all respect for you MEDC...you’ve gone too far this time... While I can have some understanding for your strong views about me regarding the lack of exposure and from your POV as a BS, there is ZERO excuse for your hateful comment to me yesterday regarding the "racist" issue... THAT was a DELIBERATE attempt to ATTACK me...and it was clear for EVERYONE to see... I don't need to say anything more...

This will be my last time posting to YOU... I have nothing more to say to you.

Cheers.

bye Suzet.
And I said "if" I am wrong because only you know for sure your true feelings...and since you live in a very racially charged country, I think an assumption based on your words was not unreasonable...it may very well be wrong...and that is why I apologized.

And yes, I would appreciate that you don't post to me anymore. I don't have respect for anyone that acts the way that you continue to act. I think your decision is a good one all around. LG would do well to follow suit.

(MY EDITS IN ALL CAPS)

MEDC:

Question it all you like hypocrite. The only way to correct what I did was to be a great dad (BY STAYING MARRIED TO his mom...which thank God happened). So, I am a great dad. I didn't YEARS WITH MY PANTS UNZIPPED and NOW choosing to JUSTIFY MY ACTIONS with the PERSON you harmed.....

I corrected my mistake to the best of my ability MEDC...you, on the other hand, continue to choose to harm someone else (YOUR EX-GF?). Since we live so close, I hope to read someday about how your deeds were found out by the BH and he came looking for you to extract justice. Frankly, IMO, that is what every WS that does not inform the OBS deserves.... it will catch up to you....maybe even when someone sleeps with your Flamingo and decides not to tell you...what goes around will come around...eventually. For your childrens sake I hope that doesn't happen....for you, it would be a valuable lesson.

MEDC...my son is proud of me and the stands I have taken for him (and the attempts I made to put our family together). If it were solely up to him, he would never speak to his mom again... I do what I can to foster that relationship so long as she is acting responsible. (WHY WOULD YOU PUT YOUR SON IN A BAD SITCH?) Your son, on the other hand, would most likely be ashamed at your actions that have harmed his family...(BTW, HE KNOWS) and also for your cowardly choice in not telling the OM. Yeah, MEDC...YOU did have a child out of wedlock....I wouldn't have one if I (SAID NO WHEN SHE ASKED FOR A KISS (or if I kept my pants zipped up...or if the condomn did its job)... I didn't and have fought for my son ever since. Gee, MEDC... how many dads do you know that have full costody and the mom has only supervised visitation... (GOOD JOB!) I think I must be doing something right...heck, I was even provided a foster child. I wouldn't even let you baby sit my child with your lack of morals and a willingness to HAVE CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK.

EDITS IN ALL CAPS.

MEDC:

That's the point. Your morality floats to fit your circumstances.

If I used all your justifications above for your behavior to justify mine, YOU would be all over me. (MY EDITS IN ALL CAPS)

BUT it's your morality your protecting now.

This has gone on for 4 pages to long again.

AND you are far too easy to bait. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

I find that sort of amusing. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

No, MEDC. You have knowledge of one flaw in my so-called personality. You will bring it up any time and every time. For what purpose?

Just like me bringing up your unzipped pants. In reality, in the long run, rehashing this, serves no purpose.

I can call the OWH today. And that wouldn't change your opinion of me one bit. It would now become "Well, it TOOK you TWO years!"

You can't change your past, I can't change mine.

BTW, MEDC, I have been robbed a gunpoint twice, one time, taken from my place of employment, into a dark alley and asked to kneel with a gun to the back of my head. So, I'm not afraid of BS. If he was to show up at my doorstep tommorrrow. I would deal with it.

Also: I have a brother in your same exact sitch. He's a great dad.

All I will ever ask of a poster around here is to respect the MB priniciples. Call any one out who proposes something that is not within the MB principles. But if ALL the posters flaws have been revealed, they can still post something thats valuable. Attack them for straying from the principles of MB. Leave the morality attacks for when the poster is contradicting MB Principles.

LG