I know it's been a while since I've posted. WH seems to be acting a bit weird these days. It seems as though since I exposed to OW's H they haven't been talking as much. At first I guess I expected communication to cease immediately so I thought that maybe he just didnt' believe me or that she had lied to him and he believed her. When I first noticed that they hadn't been talking much I was afraid to get my hopes up, thinking that she was on another one of her trips or something, but this has been going on for over a month now. There's been a couple of days here and there where he's talked to her quite a bit, but really their communication has slowed down a lot. I keep wondering if their affair is coming to an end. He is still pretty withdrawn and still questioning me.... 'why are you still here? are you crazy? you shouldn't love me you should hate me" etc. But the last few days he's been a bit more than just decent to me. Now, I know we are a LONG way from recovery. He still won't hug me or kiss me, but he's done some really nice things for me and has talked to me a little bit. He's done this a few times this month though too but it would only last a day maybe two before he went running off again, but this time it's lasted longer. I'm so afraid to get my hopes up though... only to have him 'run off' again.

Hm? my WH doesn't ask this...he rather not think about things...it may make him sad <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
poooor baby!


WH just started kissing me by kissing his fingers and then putting his fingers on my forehead....****** i'll take it.
Now his communication has gotten better. However, I wonder if he will contact OW again.