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Myrev...I will offer a challenge to you to bring to me any "outlandish jumping to conclusions" that I have done. Any will suffice where I jumped to a wrong conclusion based on the information given (and not just my jabbing back at someone that had taken a cheap shot at me or a "friend" here). I would really like to see where I did that and possibly learn something from you.

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BUT...we have seen this before....yep, we sure have! But yes, for now....some speculation...some not.

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Honestly what "Proof" do you have. Please spell it out for me.

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Anybody else find it interesting that none of LTK's "new found supporters/friends" ever posted any advice or support for his M on this thread?

And does anyone else find it just as interesting that LTK, a possible BS, who was offered support and good advice would turn his back on some of those MB supporters, who did take the time to post to him, and write the following right before he left?

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As a result, I almost discontinued my involvement on this board. It wasn't until after I read post from supporters that I realized the purpose of some here, in so far as that, those who disagree with some posters philosphy are targeted for removal.


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Anybody else find it interesting that none of LTK's "new found supporters/friends" ever posted any advice or support for his M on this thread?

I totally missed that one. Dang.


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Also, after Mrs. W went out of her way to kindly offer support and advice to LTK on this very thread, he later called her "hateful...." on his other thread, b/c he didn't care for her style of posting to one of his 'new' supporters.

Very 'interesting' behavior for a possible hurting/confused BS, don't you think?

~ Marsh

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Marsh,

Seems to me you are speculating.

Facts: MrsW chose to post to LTK. LTK perceived her posts as hateful.

How interesting are those facts?

We can spin a lot of fantasy through speculation...won't make it a reality.

Your perception was that she did it out of her way and kindly and that LTK felt someone was a supporter of his.

What's your purpose in stating your perception as fact? What do you hope to achieve for yourself?

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I think you are speculating that Marsh is speculating. Your perception might just be off.

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Hi LA!

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Facts: MrsW chose to post to LTK. LTK perceived her posts as hateful.


No, he didn't say he perceived the posts she wrote to him on this thread were hateful. He thanked her for her posts here.

It was on his thread, that was deleted, where he stated that she was being hateful to other posters, who he called his "supporters"....and yet, none of them had ever supported his M on this thread...or, I believe, on any of his others.

I find that curious.

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Facts: MrsW chose to post to LTK. LTK perceived her posts as hateful.

Actually LA, LTK did not originally view my posts as "hateful", in fact this is what he said regarding my first post to him...

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WOW!!! Now thats what I am talking about. I communicated the same message to the Mrs almost word for word. Jury is still out on that one.

Thanks for the insight, I hope your H realizes how lucky he is!!

He only viewed my later posts as hateful...I don't feel that they were, but oh well...

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He only viewed my later posts as hateful...I don't feel that they were


Neither did I.

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