I find it pretty sick LL that you only show up here when there is some stir going on...you come here to talk about how very much this forum is "going downhill" and pointing your angry little directives at others INSTEAD of actually offering ADVICE to HELP people here that need it-how exactly do you expect your finger pointing to help anything or anyone? As per usual, helping is NOT your intention here... I see right through you...
Mrs. W
You Do !! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> And what exactly would that be?
I don't post to all and sundry for a couple of reasons.
Mostly because I don't believe in giving advice and then not hanging around to offer a follow up. And quite simply, I don't have the time to do that.
Secondly... I don't give advice I haven't experienced personally .. re infidelity in a marriage. Thankfully I am not in that category but even if I were I'm not sure I would follow the rules around here. I've read the book but haven't studied it to the latter as some. I like get advice but I think for myself.
I enjoy reading the well balanced posts of some people who offer worthy advice and in a respectful manner. There's many times I feel I would like to get involved in some thread that I identify with and feel I can offer helpful advice, but why would I want to risk having my opinion twisted out of shape to suit someone else control agenda and then have to explain again and again what I said!
I am offended by the name calling and disgusting behaviour displayed here at times and I say so, why shouldn't I ? The same people who point at the sign and tell posters who the forum belongs to need to have a better look at the sign because they themselves are GUESTS here and every poster who is looking for help should be welcome not just the ones who fit the criteria of some.
I have to wonder about people who sit at the computer day in day out helping the world have 'better' marriages, rather than BE in their own marriage. Acions speak louder than words ... I suspect a little deception some times and mostly from the people who talk the most.
Empty vessels make the loudest noise! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
It's not hard to spot the problems here, the same few posters are continually in the middle of any drama, offending posters, twisting words, name calling, jumping to conclusions, at times making things worse rather than better. Over time there have been many people who've called them on it. I hope they continue to.
I enjoy watching the arrogant few get put in their place. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> You can bet I'm not the only one!
