Mitzie
Just wanted to give you kuddos for exposure of the affair to the work place.I am glad the company took a stand.My husband had a affair in his work place he ended it before I found out and when I did find out he quit the job.It has been sience Feb o6 and I have often wanted to expose her to the company she works for I know my husband would be mad I have never met her but feel hatred for this woman.We are still trying to build our marriage back but I feel it will never be the same I know he was at fault too but I just cant stop loving him after 17 yrs of marriage anyways you did the right thing in my book

Did you ever consider getting her fired, just to see if he's still in contact with her?

If he is, you'll hear about it.

Krazy
Its been almost 9 months and she is in another state in which he has not been back to I know the physical part is over but I think the emotional part may still linger.I am usually not a vindictive person but all this not knowing about this person eats at me. I feel like she got away with alot of course so did he but he does seem to be trying to put his family back together.I wonder if her company would even care now that its been 9 months

sorry mitzie did not mean to intrude on your thread

Well, one of them had to leave the job, and it might as well be HER. If they were still working together, recovery could never happen. But I am concerned they are still in contact. Hang in there.

So it is YOUR fault she got fired because SHE choose to have an A with a WS? Hm..... that's a 3 some and I know u don't do 3, right? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

Typical Ws babble. My RB response w/b something like:

WS: It's your fault BS that the OW got fired.

BS: Really? I have that much power? Great..... (now wave your hands and lay a big curse on the OW). LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

WS: It's not funny, I may get fired also and it w/b all YOUR fault.

BS: Really? In that case, I'd better wave my wand again and make sure you are bound to us for life. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> So how do you like being married to such a powerful woman? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Ws: (speechless - priceless)

BS: <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />



L.

RB? I like it, and if he ever speaks to me again and uses those WS babble lines, I'll be sure to use them.

From now on I think I shall like to be called "The Great and Powerful Mitzie" Don't look behind the curtain! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Child support/spousal support papers filed, along with sole property ownership. I guess he's not fired since I haven't heard from him since this afternoon. So I can proceed as planned to protect my kids and myself.

Yay! Go for it, mitzie! Protect yourself.

And change your username to "The Great and Powerful Mitzie!!!!"

Have a great night! I think I really might be able to sleep now!

Take care,

Charlotte

Just a quick update: WS not fired, only reprimanded because of his exemplimentary 14 year work record.

Came by today to tell me this. Still telling me to watch my back because OW is 'going to get me'. I have a very good friend who is an attorney who told me to tell him to tell her (assuming, which I am, that they are still in contact)I hope she does. Then I can slap her *ss with a harrasment suit, and perhaps assault (if she literally comes after me). WS very quiet, almost puzzled, when I told him this. Like I'm suppose to cower and cry and act all helpless because I caused an audulterer to get fired.

I can tell he is still PO'd at me. He looks a mess, disheveled and his coat is filthy, his eyes are red and he looks like a beaten man. He didn't say much at all, stayed about 20 minutes while I took a shower and got ready, then he left. I don't know when he'll be back.


I did get my court date papers for support today in the mail. I know WS has to be served and sign for his. At least when that goes through I won't be dependent on him for $$. Everything is in his name, checking, savings, credit cards.

If the OW breaks off contact with HIM (I don't know if this has happened)or it ends because of the firing and he goes through greiving the loss what do I expect? He doesn't live here and at this point I don't know if he wants to come back since he is so angry at me for getting her fired.

Mitzie, right now you are my hero.

As hard as I tried, I could not get OM or WW fired from their job.

OM was even using the COMPANY CREDIT CARD to take WW out to lunch, motels, etc...

Krazy,



The point of exposure is to bring pressure on the affair partners to end the affair. Exposure at the work place of the OW after the affair has ended would be revenge and isn't recommended.

I know that there is great temptation to try and get revenge on the OP, but as someone once said revenge is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die, or something like that.

That's "resentment", not "revenge".

Oops, thanks.

Mitzie,

Don't tell him anything about the consequences for the OW. It will back fire on you.

Let them see the consequences when YOU are ready.

take care,
L.