ubatz, there is a woman for you. You could find her in real life. If you go to church, look there. If you have married friends, ask them to introduce you to a nice single woman. Hobbies, interests, all the Dear Abby stuff that sound so trite and cliche are excellent ways to meet potential girlfriends.

When you have broken off with your friend, she will find another man to chat with on the net. Likely she already has one or two in line. If her marriage is as bad as she tells you, posting to strange men on the net won't help her to fix things in the marriage.

One of my favorite phrases: You just dodged a bullet.