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I cannot WAIT to start contributing to this financial MESS that I have created. I think it'll go a long way towards me feeling like I am helping to fix the problems.

LaLa...

I read the above from you and I KNOW that you are on the right path...What you are talking about there is part of JUST COMPENSATION...A Harley concept! Can't We Just Forgive and Forget? Your heart is in the right place...Asking the questions of W2S that you are shows great care...Marriage is a relationship of EXTRAORDINARY CARE...You really are doing so much right...I read it in your posts here and also when you post to others...Your sincerity is obvious to all I believe...((((LaLa))))

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P.S. What are TMTS and I, chopped liver??? You little attention hound you! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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BTW, TMTS what does "BWT" stand for? "Born Without Tail" perhaps? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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You know, your too funny to be married to a lawyer...especially one that's a Red Wing fan. LOL


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Oh good grief...why must you people make me laugh when I'm wallowing...SHEESH!

BK- I meant when I let it all out, I feel like it sounds whiney. When I keep it inside, it's not good either. When I focus on W2S it seems like I am undermining my own feelings, or whatever. I don't know. I always try to be sincere, though. Your comment says you understood a lot better than you let on, though, because it answered/addressed my question/uncertainty very well. Be sincere. Got it!

Mrs W and TMTS- hmmm..chopped liver? No, maybe chitlins (yee haw) and french fries with gravy (a Canadian special).

BRB!


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LaLa your sincerity shines through and you should never worry about how you are percieved by others.


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Thanks, BK! Big ditto to you!

PS...I love your tag line! You are probably the only (or one of very few) "tell it like it is" person here that does it with grace and humor. Why does "tell it like it is" so often end up being "tell you what I think and if you don't agree, you are stupid?"

But I digress...


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Thanks, BK! Big ditto to you!

Thanks LaLa - for the PS too. But that could be percieved as you putting a target on your back in this MB climate at the moment.....


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"tell you what I think and if you don't agree, you are stupid?"

I've never read anyone here say that LaLa...I'm not sure what you mean...But I would be VERY careful of worrying about the style or tone of others' posts-remembering that you can only control you...This place works BECAUSE of the diversity...Word to the wise: Whining about how others post is a great way to get your [censored] handed to you...

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Problem is, the ones who would take exception are the ones I'm referring to and, therefore, I couldn't care less!!

Is that wrong? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W, JIC you take exception to my PS to BK, I want you to know I don't see you as one of those "tell it like it is" people. I see you more as straight-forward/to the point kinda gal. I won't name the ones who always seems to add insult to their "honesty"...I think we all know who they are!

And to each his own, anyways, ya know!


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Ahhh you forget that I am French Canadian... We put cheese curds on our fries before we add the gravy.UMMMM!


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Sorry I forgot to mention that the cheese curd must be fresh. To test for freshness you need to do a squeek check. If you bit on the cheese and it doesn't squeek between your teeth then it not fresh enough. usually the cheese was packaged the same day it's used. UMMMM!!! that woth a Montreal smoked meat sandwich from Schawt's.


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See I don't know who you are talking about though LaLa...You may actually miss out on learning some valuable stuff by thinking that way...dunno...

Email me if you'd like! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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We really just need to nuke Canada! Silly Foreigners! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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mmmm poutine...

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LOL!!!! And what foreigners are sillier?


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Thanks LaLa.


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Actually, Mrs. W, I still learn quite a bit from those people. I don't automatically discount all that they are trying to convey based on how they word it.

But like I said...to each his/her own. I wouldn't dream of telling people how to post. Not now (being a newbie) and not EVER! Residual anger seems to come thru a lot in some poster's posts, though, no matter how helpful they are- which sometimes diminishes what they are trying to teach us. Just IMO, though...


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LOL!!!! And what foreigners are sillier?

The FRENCH of course!!! That makes you DOUBLE SILLY boy!!! Here's a little reading material for ya about your ancestry~~~> CLICK HERE <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />


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That why there are Frnech Canadians...we got out.


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now THAT is funny!


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