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Any chance the troll could be one of our FWS's OW? No, not possible. There was only one OW, and I cannot imagine that she would know about this place.
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was that too harsh for any of you troll coddlers?
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IF you really want to help her or anyone else on this board, leave them alone and seek help for yourself first and quit wasting our time.
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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I said I won't respond to any negative comment about me, but I'll make this one exception. No, I don't know you in real life. Can we focus on sinkingin now please!
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You're not even a smart troll. If you're going to troll, at least get better at it. Mope, You are really too much. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Man it must really suc to not even have enough going for you than to be bad at trolling. If I knew that there was no chance that some poor newby might actually follow some of this lame advice, <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />I'd find it funny. BA, You'd probably be better off taking a second job tha wasting your time here. Then you could go shopping. Who
I am the BW,
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was that too harsh for any of you troll coddlers? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> No troll coddlers welcome on this thread, thank you very much. If they start coddling on this one, I will take it as a personal betrayal! MEDC, this may sound ridiculous, but could someone find me just by being on here. I know, I being really paranoid right now. Just reassure me please. Why does this person target me and tst right after tst comes here?
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SMB, she might not be the OW in your sitch, but she may be in someone elses. Maybe.
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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No, they can't find you.
She does it because she**edit**. No other reason.
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No, they can't find you.
She does it because she is an *******. No other reason. Thank you. I don't usually lose rational thought so quickly. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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Man it must really suc to not even have enough going for you than to be bad at trolling. I know, right? It is laughable.
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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She may not be any of our OW, but you can darn sure bet she's been the OW at least once. I'd also bet that she got dumped by the WH. She is bitter and resentful of recovering marriages that is clear. My bet is that her agenda is to disrupt things here as much as possible to divert folks from working on recovery.
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This is getting absurd. How do I delete this post?
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BA - Whether or not you are sincerely trying to help and are just too young or uneducated/experienced to actually be of much help... or a troll... the fact still remains that the advice you offer newcomers here is not that good.
You have been repeatedly made aware of that fact.
IMHO I can't really relate to any newcomer, let alone one with so little actual knowledge and experience with marital recovery after adultery, choosing to call themselves 'Best Advisor'. That in itself is IMHO suspicious, dishonest, and dangerous (because it may cause newcomers to actually follow your advice).
Oh BTW, the current trolling tactic is to pretend that NOBODY but the troll suspects care about or are posting to newcomers asking for help... A false accusation that has become suddenly popular here in spite of evidence otherwise...
If you want to be taken seriously and actually be some help to the newcomers:
Change your deceptive posting name to something that does not mislead newcomers. (BTW tell us what your new name is - common courtesy and it's the way non-trolls do things.)
Stop trying to give advice and just stick to reading and learning until you actually have learned enough to give good advice.
Stop playing troll games such as pretending that the regulars here are ignoring the newcomers and YOU troll-suspects are the ONLY ones posting help to them.
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SMB, she might not be the OW in your sitch, but she may be in someone elses. Maybe. Do you mean that she might be someone else's OW and just randomly picked us to "pick on"? I asked her very respectfully last time she pestered me and tst to post her story so that I could know where she was coming from. She asked for MY EMAIL so that she could share with me directly and not here on the board. Then she said that if I knew her story I would be more inclined to take her advice. So, I asked, if that is the case, why not post here and gain EVERYONE'S respect. Still no story.
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unplug your computer...that will do it.
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She's still inventing it.
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unplug your computer...that will do it. LMAO, she probably has a laptop with a battery, just our luck.
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BA, You'd probably be better off taking a second job tha wasting your time here. Then you could go shopping. Now THAT would be smart.
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MEDC, Who, <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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