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SMB,



I know this wasn't directed at me, but I wanted to throw this out there. Did BA show up after your H started posting or before?


When your H started posting he had his full name and town you live in in his profile. If it is his FOW she could easily have found you by doing a google search of his name and his profile may show. It wouldn't be hard to put the pieces together and see who he belongs with. Google yourself and him and see how easy it is to find yourself. It's actually a little scary what is on the web for the whole world to see.

Another thought I had is trolls in general HATE to be ignored. The fact you and your H flat out told her you had her on ignore would be enough for her to push and push until you respond to her, thus verifying she is not being ignored. (just something I've seen happen over and over on another board)

Just my 2 cents for whatever it's worth.

LC

Aptiva:

You're missing the point honey:

"instead of worrying about a troll go help or try to help someone."

First of all I don't see any of the troll confronters failing to post to newcomers asking for help. It is possible to do both you know. (Can't say the same for some of the troll defenders though... hmmm....)

Secondly, since it is YOUR belief that the ONLY agenda of trolls who post at this MB site is to gain attention it makes sense for YOU to not post to OR ABOUT them.

Those of us who are concerned about the damage they may inflict by posing as 'best advisors' or who object to them lying to us in trying to gain support to steal a married man from his wife (pretending the man they are after is their WH and his wife is the OW), have every right to decide for ourselves whom we post to and what topics we post about.

Not only is your attempt to censor unwelcome, the argument you cite for it is not accurate and is naive; and each time you state it you are being hypocritical because you are giving attention to trolling yourself.

You not only are giving the trolls attention but you are trying to censor any opposition to their tactics (NOT their mere pesence). That is not exactly a neutral stance. No doubt the trolls appreciate what you are doing for them, enjoying the attention YOU are giving them PLUS the added benefit of your defense of them.

Also, SMB specifically stated that she did not want to read any troll defenses in this thread. Where is your concern for her? Do you not understand her POV and concerns about what this particular troll's agenda may in practically stalking her here?

What I cannot believe is that the board moderators actually allowed Beast-Advisor to return to these forums, after she attempted to portray herself as me by usurping my username.

She should have been completely banned via the computerized magic in the world that knows her by her computer ID, ISP, etc........

How this person can remain on the boards is beyond my understanding.

Schoolbus - The REAL one.

I know and I'm sorry you feel that way. If you have known my story, you (and tst) would feel very differently about me. That's one of the reasons that JustUss (who doesn't know my story completely, but we have been emailing) allows me to come back. I have seen the changes in tst, I won't target him again. As I have stated before again and again, I truly hope things continue to improve and work out between you two.


I have read your story and I know that if you have been in Sinkingin's shoes, you would have done things very differently. Most advice given to her have been harsh, though right, but since you just recently gone through your ordeal, you might be able to give her a more personal perspective and more compassionate to her state of mind.


For everyone else, IF I am really a troll who, as you all described, seeks attention, do you think I would pass up all these opportunities to fight and attack back (thus get more attention) when you called me names and attacked me?

This post was meant to draw attention to Sinkingin's post, so she can get the proper advice, motivation, and support she needs. If you would like to bash me, please start your own post.

BA

Let me get this straight. You were stalking newcomers on our board, impersonating a VET, and busily changing your screen name daily so you could evade a BAN, showing complete lack of respect for the board, and you have the NERVE to complain that you were "attacked?" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

You know, I just wonder if this board should not be LEFT TO the trolls, since they are held in such high regard here at the expense of board members? They are certainly treated better than the ones who object to their trolling. NO WONDER YOU FEEL SO EMBOLDENED. Where are the troll defenders now? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

Justuss?

Mel, this creature is obviously disturbed and bored.

BA

Why are you so desperate to give unsupported and poorly indicated advice to people that you endure such negativity ?

Why won't you answer this question ?

Whatever your story is - and I mean WHATEVER it is - your advice is uniformly awful and very poorly indicated compared to MB tenets.

You seem to have a desperate need to advise even when the advice you give is terrible. Why are you so desperate to advise hurting people that you fight for the opportunity to give them terrible advice, BA ?

Why did you last post under "Best Angel" instead of "Best Advisor"? Why the need for so many IDs?

Regardless of any attempt on your part to change your name, you shall remain a troll in my opinion.

An "angel" you are not.


Repeatedly you have been asked to tell us about your so-called story. You decline.

Do you really expect anyone here to placy any value in the advice of someone completely unwilling to share of themselves?

Oh - wait - we should just "believe" you?

And the grounds for that belief? Based in what????

The FACTS?

The facts that I see are:

You do not use any research-based evidence such as the Harley principles.

You change your name frequently.

You attempt to portray yourself as others.

You have actively attempted to ursurp MY screen name.

You have continued to post to users who have asked you to leave them alone.



Those are FACTS.


You have no choice at this point in order to be REDEEMED - as "angels" have been, BA, if you actually knew anything about angels.

Start the redemption process and tell us something we have not yet heard from you.

THE TRUTH.

Start with WHY YOU ARE HERE.

And your story.

You get one chance with this - and it has to be credible. Because the people here are very tired of you. The people here are forgiving in nature, as shown by their attempts to redeem even the most difficult and seemingly hopeless of marital relationships.

So maybe even you have a shot at fixing the problem YOU have created on the forum with yourself.

YOU are attacked because you have concealed yourself, and stolen from me.

YOU can redeem yourself by giving us the truth.

Try that, BA.

I would wish to hear NOTHING else from you but that. Anything else, and I will essentially PLAN B you.

And trust me, I am probably the most forgiving person on the board. I have forgiven two people who raped me as a seven year old child, and a man who committed felony assault on me. And my FWH, who cheated on me three times in our 32 year marriage. So you DO have a shot.

Only ONE shot.

You can take it, or leave it.

Why are you here, and what is your story, BA? The truth this time.

Schoolbus - the REAL one.

BA, sometimes I wonder/worry that maybe you are very young and struggling to cope with your parents' adultery/divorce.

If there is some logical innocent reason for why you post here I don't understand why you don't just say so.

Why would you be so unwilling to share your story with us here?

The way you persist in posting just further fuels the suspicions that you are just a cruel troll intent on getting amusement from or in further hurting the BS's who post here.

Do you know one of the posters here personally? Are you the child, WS, or OP in regards to one of the posters here?

Or is somebody you know (but who isn't posting here) somehow involved in adultery? Are you or a close friend or relative a BS, WS, or OP?

How did you hear about this site?
Why did you come here?
Why do you continue to post in such a suspicious manner?
Why do you stay here when you've not been welcomed?
Why aren't you interested in learning and endorsing MB principles?

Googling bestadvisor brought up that it's a HE, and he likes to troll at loveshack:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/search.php?searchid=2789527

And also as bestadvisor1:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/search.php?searchid=2789691

He follows the same trajectory there, asks pointed questions, gives terrible advice, and dogs certain threads relentlessly. Wants answers but won't give any.

Mag- all good points, plus the [email]cr@p[/email] which "it" has pulled here.

I still cannot believe that the Mods have allowed it to return.

Blows my mind.

BA owes me a personal apology at the very least, for pulling the stupid stunt with my username.

BA also needs to leave SMB alone. Despite repeated requests, BA continues to annoy and stalk her.

So, BA, can you rise to the challenge and tell us your so-called story, or are you just what we say you are - a lying troll?

BestAngel, BestAdvisor, BestAdvisor1, BestAdvisor2:

There have been several instances of game playing on your part since arriving on MB:

1. Multiple usernames
2. Stealing usernames of well respected posters (Schoolbus to name one)
3. Using the quote feature to capture a vet's (Orchid) cell number where she could no longer delete it

What is different now where we should respect you as a serious poster?

Jo

Meremortal I myself DONOT like trolls I have no use for them. Like I said instead of feeding them by all means help someone else. As you can see, this here, has lead him/her right back here as Bestangel that is why I said let the MODS handle them. Keep complainging to the MODS. I know they see all this. AS you can see this is getting US nowhere about this person and ALL trolls so whats the point? All this is doing is getting us decent people bickering. And that is what basicly I was concerned about.

Sorry for the t/j here...SCHOOLBUS, can you please email me? marriedforever2006@yahoo.com

Thank you kindly!

MF

Done!

SB