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ok, BA109, I am waiting........... tap, tap, tap........ <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I didn't edit ANYTHING yet. Although I do have my finger poised over the ** key, loaded and ready! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />. poor Justuss must have carpal tunnels after dealing with this crowd! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I'm trying to hold back, thinking that BA could be one of my sons..he's their age..
BUT..they were prolly in da clubs last night..and are still asleep..
I don't know if that's GOOD or BAD..LOL..
Seriously, those boys have done things that I'm not proud of..but have done things that I'm very proud of...
SO THERE...some LOVE came out anyways...
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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If my son, age 25, came on this forum and stalked people and gave them misleading advice, I would kick his [censored]. He sure would not get my sympathy for harming people. He would get a foot up his hind end.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Ba109 is falling down on the job! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I would kick his [censored]. He sure would not get my sympathy for harming people. He would get a foot up his hind end. BA knows that he doesn't have MY SYMPATHY.. I've been talking to HIM on here... This is MY OPINION.. I don't think being PUNITIVE is HELPFUL..that's ME...I own that.. I hope he LEARNS something and doesn't move from here and continue in HIS WAYS... He is YOUNG enough to turn his life around despite his WRONGDOINGS... As we well know, even more mature adults CHANGE after being BAD and are FORGIVEN...
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I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Please!! MBer's!!
Let's send him on his way and wish him well,,hoping he never really needs this board in his future!
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Administrator/Moderator Yes BA, I wish you well. I appreciate you coming clean with us here. I appreciate your good intentions and your concern. I understand and appreciate your desire to exit with dignity, and your concern for Orchid and others. I hope that the things you've learned here will help you to never NEED this place. Best wishes.
me - 47  H - 39  married 2001 DS 8a  DS 8b :crosseyedcrazy: (Why is DS7b now a blockhead???) (Ack! Now he's not even a blockhead, just a word! That's no fun!)
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I don't think granting well wishes to someone who has stalked and tormented a board, without remorse, is HELPFUL. It is inappropriate, IMO. I reserve my well wishes for those he HARMED.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Remember that no talent, no self-denial, no brains, no character, are required to set up in the fault-finding business.
me - 47 H - 39 married 2001 DS 8a DS 8b :crosseyedcrazy: (Why is DS7b now a blockhead???) (Ack! Now he's not even a blockhead, just a word! That's no fun!)
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I happen to agree with JustUss, and choose for myself to wish him well.
I am not telling YOU who to wish well.
me - 47 H - 39 married 2001 DS 8a DS 8b :crosseyedcrazy: (Why is DS7b now a blockhead???) (Ack! Now he's not even a blockhead, just a word! That's no fun!)
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Jayne, did you happen to read my OTHER QUOTE? He who justifies the wicked, and he who condemns the just, Both of them alike are an abomination to the LORD. Proverbs 17:15
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I find it interesting to quote Ayn Rand and the Bible back to back.
Just interesting, that's all. Nothing more.
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Jayne, I am sure the stalker troll, BA, appreciates your well wishes. Too bad you couldn't have afforded that same support to his victims. He who justifies the wicked, and he who condemns the just, Both of them alike are an abomination to the LORD. Proverbs 17:15
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I didn't edit ANYTHING yet. Although I do have my finger poised over the ** key, loaded and ready!
He must have deleted it himself. Uhhh, ok. I believe ya. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Sorry Mel. I'm watching FOOTBALL! There are more important things in life than the departure of a troll from MB. GO PACK!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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How do you know I didn't?
When smb and tst left, I was too afraid to post anything to them here. The environment was far too hostile. Over the holidays things seemed to improve. (thanks mods!)
Here's hoping this board remains helpful and not hurtful.
me - 47 H - 39 married 2001 DS 8a DS 8b :crosseyedcrazy: (Why is DS7b now a blockhead???) (Ack! Now he's not even a blockhead, just a word! That's no fun!)
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For Mel: From ba109: To BA aka (fill in the blank): Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Sorry Justuss! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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edited: FINALLY!! Now I feel much better! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
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**snort** <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Jayne,
Please believe is never too hostile to support victims. I was a victim as a child
no one stood for me
they were afraid of the criminals.
and those who supported the criminals.
so i stood alone
and I left home.
I.
left.
HOME.
There was no support for me there.
Perhaps your support towards tst and smb could have made a difference
to THEM.
Instead, unfortunately, what I truly believe I saw happen here was support for the person who inflicted the pain. And a rush by many to essentially say, "It's okay. EVERYONE is okay. EVERYONE is good. There is no right or wrong, we can smooth it over."
I believe in right and wrong, having been at the receiving end of
wrong
too many times in my life. Wrong exists. It existed in this case, and despite the attempts to ice it up pretty and call it birthday cake, it isn't a cake and it remains
a wrong.
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