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I have let him go, in a control sense, freeing myself to care for ME. Now, this is in it's infancy stages, and I'm still learning. I am so there with ya.... I think you idea of gathering this information would be awesome. I see so many people with so many emotions it's just nice to hear how others have walked through it in a condensed version. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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When reading about codependency, I have also gotten information about Al Anon, and about CONTROL issues, and about belief in a higher power. I've also read about Facing our fears, walking thru them. Fear can be debilitating, and keep you from forward progress.
I had a fear of speaking my truth. Will probably be working on this FOREVER, but at least I am working on it.
Me-BS-38
Married 1997; son, 8yo
Divorced April 2009
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