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Medic, an ex had a guy routinely spend the night, even admitting they spent the night in the same bed. BUT, she INSISTED they did not have sex. She also refused to tell him wewere still having sex. Sound familiar?
Well, just like your wife, she lied - they had been having sex.
Do NOT leave the house. Also do not allow her to go. If she goes, change the locks, she has officially left. She can move in with him. Pal, it's your marriage, either fight for it completely or kick her butt out the door.
You being wishy-washy is just enabling her. Don't worry about making her mad, you already did by doing the right thing. Make that your concern - doing the right thing.
It is rare for a truly happy woman to try and take a child away from it's father.
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Unfortunately this whole thing has really taken a drain on her account in my bank, I don't think I'm strong enough to keep doing this. If I had HNHN and this site this summer, things might be different now. After my dad's death 3 weeks ago, and now this, I don't have it in me to keep up a one sided fight. I can't deal with the lies anymore, I need to be somewhere where I can find the support to deal with the loss of my father, and since 3 days after his death she left me to spend the day with him, I can't get that support with her right now. If the A ends, maybe I can try dating her again, though I don't think I'd want to now.
Aptiva, where do u think u know me from?
BS 31
WW 31
DD 7
DS 4
D-Day 8/07 and 11/07
Trying to survive Plan A
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I feel for you, man. If that's truly how you feel, tell her that. Tell her she is free to go, but if she goes, that's it, no coming back.
Let het make the right, or wrong, choice. You have already made yours.
It is rare for a truly happy woman to try and take a child away from it's father.
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