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listen to G-d and hear what changes he wants you to make, ((((Quennie)))) That is one of the most beautiful things I have seen yet....thanks I needed that. You are strong and faithful, G-d will remember that.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> and reward YOU accordingly.... thanks...not2fun ps....sorry about the t/j snuggles....hang in there....
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TJ are welcome anytime on this thread.... no worries Not
Truth can stand on it's own two feet....A lie needs support....FRM
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I mean it Snuggles and you are welcome. I wouldn't have gotten through if it weren't for her and people patience and caring. It's my lifeline at times. During the holidays I remember when TMTS stayeed with me almost the whole night. And if I hadn't promised Mimi I wouldn't hurt myself, I would still consider it an option. The fact that they live together is actually much better for the affair ending. If they only see each other from time to time, they never really get a taste of reality. The longest affairs are the ones where they DON'T get together. Just keep in mind that affairs almost always end. The chances of them staying together are very slim. Your commitment to this is what keeps giving me hope. Because it seems that the longer they live in reality, the more settled in they become. Or is it just the opposite, they are fighting for it to not end and trying everything?
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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You are strong and faithful, G-d will remember that.... and reward YOU accordingly.... I really just want some peace in my heart, not rewards. I am just serving him as best as I can and always when I can. He has been very gracious, patient and understanding with me. He could have given up on me, but he hasn't. I love my G-d and truly just want to please him. I just don't always know how.
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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Queenie the way to please him is to be the best person you can be. He knows you may faulter at times but that is why you ask for forgiveness and he will grant it.
You are doing great just keep praying and what will be will be.
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And you are doing awesome. I gain much strength from you and your willingess to do what it takes.
Hey Snuggles, I used to live in Hillsdale, are you close to there?
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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I really just want some peace in my heart ((((Queenie)))) Don't we all, honey??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Well, that will be my prayer request for YOU this week.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> And hey, JTLYK....I quoted you in Serenity's thread....I meant what I said,,,,G-d used YOU to speak to ME today.... not2fun
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Hillsdale.... not sure what state that is in ... i'm in NJ
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LOL, Snuggles Hillsdale is in NJ. Up in Bergen County. Not, I meant what I said,,,,G-d used YOU to speak to ME today.... What an honor to be used by G-d. I hope for more of this and bring comfort to those who are struggling. We are all in this together. thank you for sharing that with me. It's G-d way of letting me know that I am listening to him and making those changes to be of service.
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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"Listen to God and the changes He wants you to make in your life"...by Queenie
Thank you Queenie...
I also said somthing in SS's thread about that...Here it is...
I thought about that quote a lot too... I don't know why but I feel like God has a plan for me and my family But I havn't been going to church... Resisting maybe? I've never been a very religious man or had a lot of faith. But since all this affair crap has been going on I've been much more willing to accept??? More receptive maybe??? Does that make sense?
BH, 46
STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
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LOL ok ... yeah i am not from NJ. I moved here three years ago to be with my WH cause this is where he was from. I am down at the shore so i don't know much about the north ... hehe
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I like the Jersey Shore... I took the family to Cape May last year for Labor Day... We went to the Coast Guard Beach and had a real nice time... I got sun burnt ... My boss thought it was funny... she warned me though....LOL
BH, 46
STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
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It's nice down there ..... and yes sunburn is my middle name in the summer.... i am a pale pasty irish/italian
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Snuggles where are you from originally?
Amazin.... This journey we are on, nothing makes sense and everything makes sense where G-d is concerned. He has plans for us if we are like ARK and be still. We have to listen and truly hear what G-d is telling us. I think I listen, but am I really hearing what his truth is for me.
Something that I continue to work on minute by minute even seconds some time.
Are you familiar with the 23 Psalm?
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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I am orginally from PA outside of philly..... that is where all my family is for the most part..... I have great friends here that have helped me through a lot.... and of course all of you great ppl here <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Are you familiar with the 23 Psalm? I'd have to read it... I'm not good at remembering scripture... Valley of death psalm maybe??? I am orginally from PA outside of philly.... Funny.... I am currently in PA just outside of Philly...LOL i am a pale pasty irish/italian Still more funnie... I'm Irish/Swiss... (Say that 10 times real fast)...LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
BH, 46
STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
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My dad's side of the family is from Pittsburgh. Have you ever been out to the west coast?
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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I'm Irish/Swiss... (Say that 10 times real fast)...LOL How about Swish..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Amazin, There is a book that I recommend. It really helped me out in my darkest days of trying to make sense of what was happening. I am still nowhere completely towards that, but this book brought me so much comfort. It's called G-d is More Than Enough by Tony Evans. It walks you through this psalm line by line. It will help you to grasp what could be happening and come to embrace G-d and know how much he loves you and wants you to look to him for dependence in all things.
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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Who me? or Snuggles...
The farthest west I've been is Colorado...I've been waaaay east though... eastern hemisphere...
I'm originally from the midwest... I'm in the Philly area because of the military...
BH, 46
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D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
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Thanks Queenie... I'll look for that book...
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D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
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