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Amazin, don't you live in the PNW? I think I meant Snuggles, but I have been up for hours and my brain is fried from not sleeping last night. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
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Furthest west i have been is Colardo as well..... i don't travel too often and plans scare me to death. I have a feeling i know where you are stationed at then Amazin <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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Snuggles, what kind of plans scare you death? Have they always?
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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planes i ment..... i don't like to not have control or see where i am going..... it scares me cause i don't know where i am going or what is going to happen.... especially when you hear of piloits falling asleep while they are flying.
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Gotcha...
Do you like cruises? I am bound and determined to have all of us meet one day on a cruise and make it a healing journey for all of us, no matter how this plays out.
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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love them....that is what our honeymoon was
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LOL, My first cruise was back in 2001. It was the ONLY vacation my H and I ever took. We had a really nice time.
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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Amazin, don't you live in the PNW? No... Philly area right now... But I've been all over... Just not west of Colorado. I have a feeling i know where you are stationed at then Amazin If you're from Philly then I'm sure you do <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Do you like cruises? I am bound and determined to have all of us meet one day on a cruise and make it a healing journey for all of us, no matter how this plays out. I wanna go... I'm ready... got tons of vacation time to burn...You know ... use it or loose it... I've always wanted to go on a cruise but my wife was always afraid... My niece had her wedding on a cruise ship right before the ship left port... That was cool... Ship was real cool too...
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STBXWW, 41, Serial Cheater
D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
D-Day #2 12-26-2007
D-Day #3 5-11-2008
Separated 1-5-2008
STBX filed for divorce March 2009
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Well WH came over tonight..... we had a great night of playing with the baby and watching tv and some adult alone time.... lol.... i know i will get a 2x4 for that but he is so damn good lucking especially in his uniform i can't stand it. He did say he wants us to be friends for now and not to do anything else cause he doesn't want to give the apperance of him using me for SF. I understand what he is saying but i wonder what all of this means. He made a snide remark about him not really getting any from his OW since they moved in together.
My thought is that if he is so in love with her why is he still sooooo attracted to me all of a sudden ???? any input from anyone
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UGH, men! that's what it is!! My WH proclaims his love to OW yet still... well I won't go into details and I won't be the one given you a 2x4 if you know what I mean. I think even if your WH, like my WH was getting it from OW, they'd still like it from their BSs as well, as much as they can get away with... just INSIST on being as health safe as possible.
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Oh most definately ...... i am a safety girl... and i work in that line of work.... the skank gave me an STD that doesn't show up on blood work just on gyn stuff..... so i was pissed about that.
As for my WH... he isn't a big SF person believe it or not... but he must not be gettin any with her or what he thought he was going to .... oh well i got my fix tho... lol... ok that was wrong but you know what i mean. i got my glimmer of hope
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oh and i soooo want to call the OW and just tell her ... ughh not that she would believe me but i would like her to have that suspecion..... ughhhh she would kick his A** out for sure
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your "glimmer of hope" LOL ahhh as my WH calls it "giving me false hope"... but yes I believe there is still a connection and who says only guys need/want it? right!
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wooo hooo SS... you hit the nail on the head... i atleast didn't go out cheating to get it... LOL well indirectly i guess you could say i did ... LOL
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oh my goodness you are too funny!!! I said the exact same thing the other night!!! LOL... in my little "fantasy" story that I was pullin' everyones leg with! Trust me I've been so tempted to call her after he heads out the door, but knowing my luck she'd say something like "i know, we have an open relationship" or something disgusting like that!
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ughhh yeah i don't want to hear that either... YUK
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HA! Snuggles...didn't think I'd find ya, did ya! LOL!
I'm glad things are going well, but it's got to be getting close to Plan B time, doncha think?
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Well WH came over tonight..... we had a great night of playing with the baby and watching tv and some adult alone time.... lol.... i know i will get a 2x4 for that but he is so damn good lucking especially in his uniform i can't stand it. He did say he wants us to be friends for now and not to do anything else cause he doesn't want to give the apperance of him using me for SF. I understand what he is saying but i wonder what all of this means. He made a snide remark about him not really getting any from his OW since they moved in together. UGH, men! that's what it is!! My WH proclaims his love to OW yet still... well I won't go into details and I won't be the one given you a 2x4 if you know what I mean. I think even if your WH, like my WH was getting it from OW, they'd still like it from their BSs as well, as much as they can get away with... just INSIST on being as health safe as possible. Oh most definately ...... i am a safety girl... and i work in that line of work.... the skank gave me an STD that doesn't show up on blood work just on gyn stuff..... so i was pissed about that. your "glimmer of hope" LOL ahhh as my WH calls it "giving me false hope"... but yes I believe there is still a connection and who says only guys need/want it? right! wooo hooo SS... you hit the nail on the head... i atleast didn't go out cheating to get it... LOL well indirectly i guess you could say i did ... LOL Snuggles4Him & SerenitySoon WHY....WHY....WHY....WHY....WHY....WHY I don't mean to be harsh, but WHY in the world would you do this? Let me tell you a little secret, men can be pigs. Wayward men are worse. They are cake eating, period. Both of you post and post claiming to want your WHs to come back to your Ms yet you provide NOOOOOOO incentive for them to remove their heads from their arses. I mean really! Why don't you both move the OW's in and y'all can be great big Jerry Springer families! Don't give me that chit about needing to "have" it either. If you need it that bad get a (BOB) and do the job yourself! You don't need no cake eating man. Good grief! Sorry for the 4X4, but have some self respect. Why would your WHs come home when you allow them to treat you this way? Nough said.....
BS-me 36 FWW-34 DS-7 & DS-3 PA - 7/06-8/06 EA - 6/06-1/07 D-Day: wife confessed 2-17-07, suspected 8-02-06 Broke NC: 2-19-07, 3-24-07, 5/07 My StoryMy Wife's Story --------------------- Healing one day at a time.....
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Ladies...honestly, W2S's words may hurt a little, but he is right. It is just...GROSS!
I am seriously concerned with both of you and your self-esteem. How can you expect your Hs to have any respect for you when you let them walk all over you like this? So, what- you stay home and take care of the kids, house, bills, jobs, etc and they get to go off on their little siestas and drop in for a quickie whenever they feel like it?
GOOD GRIEF!!!!!!!!!!!
Add to that the fact that one of you has already gotten an STD from doing this and I am just a little ill. Honestly, you should both be going to Plan B very soon. If you are just going to sit by and let them "do their thang" while you settle for "sloppy seconds" then why are you here?
FOLLOW THE PLANS, LADIES!!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok i expected that..... i know what you are thinking and you are correct..... there will be no more of that from me... as for plan B can't do yet have the baby's baptism in two weeks and he is going to be there with both of our families present. I know what you mean about the cake eating trust me i do.
I can't say any more than that as i don't know if he is still reading my posts.
i did deserve the 2x8 i just got and didn't expect any less. thank you for the concern
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