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Wrk, I'll be thinking about you and asking G-d to hold you a little tighter during the day.

I can't say that it's always understandable why we walk through such pain, and today I seem to have a harder time accepting it than other days, but I truly truly believe that G-d has a plan for us and we just have to walk in FAITH that we are learning and will be blessed one day beyond our imagination.



BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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catperson, Just Learning, and QueeniesNewLife,

Thanks for the advice, I believe like catperson said "smile and walk away" is the right thing to do.

This is going to be a rough day but I will get through it and move on in life.

Thanks again,
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Hi all,

Here's the update:

The dissolution went as planned. I avoided talking to the WW and it was an extremely difficult time for me. I want to thank everyone again for helping me thru this and for all the advice that has been given me.

I must now move forward with my new life without her, I hope like they say "it does get better each day". I am sure that I will still have rough days ahead of me, but I feel that the worst is over.

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wrk,

Please come around and update us on your life and how you are doing. I suspect you will be hearing from your ex in the future. I also suspect that you will find that your life improves as you use the tools you have learned here. Enjoy your children, enjoy your life, and I think you will find many positives come to you.

God Bless,

JL

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