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Good one, Mr.W!

T/J ALERT

Mr. W - I think WW sent yer missus an email. Unprompted by me. Hurray...

T/J Over. Please resume...

Oh, wait, how's this:

There are places I'll remember
All my life though some have changed
Some forever not for better
Some have gone and some remain
All these places have their moments
With lovers and friends
I still can recall
Some are dead and some are living
In my life I've loved them all

But of all these friends and lovers
There is no one compares with you
And these memories lose their meaning
When I think of love as something new
Though I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop
And think about them
In my life I love you more

Though I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop
And think about them
In my life I love you more
In my life I love you more


BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs

??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries

She finally quit on...

1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on

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LC - very true, you need to see it over and over. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Does that mean the assignment for the weekend is to watch it several times? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I have nothing but time this weekend since Docp is working.

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Very good addition T2H!!! i love that song.

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YES LC!!! now you are getting the idea.

trust me, once you watch it, you will want to watch it again and again!

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Woke up, got out of bed
Dragged a comb across my head
Found my way downstairs and drank a cup
And looking up, i noticed i was late
Found my coat and grabbed my hat
Made the bus in seconds flat
Found my way upstairs and had a smoke
Somebody spoke and i went into a dream
Ah



In 1969 and 70 I played in a band (we were really awful, BTW) and we covered a bunch of Beatles tunes. One we actually did a pretty good rendition of was Back In The USSR which we used to open our last set for a while.

Then I moved to a country band and then decided my real instrument was a sound console....



Well, the Ukraine girls really knock me out
They leave the West behind
And Moscow girls make me sing and shout
That Georgia's always on my mind

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Here's another:

I need you

You don't realize how much I need you
Love you all the time and never leave you
Please come on back to me
I'm lonely as can be
I need you

Said you had a thing or two to tell me
How was I to know you would upset me?
I didn't realize as I looked in your eyes
You told me, oh yes, you told me, you don't want my lovin' anymore
That's when it hurt me and feeling like this I just can't go on anymore

Please remember how I feel about you
I could never really live without you
So, come on back and see just what you mean to me. I need you

But when you told me, you don't want my lovin' anymore
That's when it hurt me and feeling like this I just can't go on anymore

Please remember how I feel about you
I could never really live without you
So, come on back and see just what you mean to me
I need you
I need you
I need you


BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs

??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries

She finally quit on...

1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on

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In 1969/70, I was 6!!!

Sorry Mark, but I knew you could handle that little dig <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

truth is, i'm just jealous. I was never talented enough to be in a band!! i tried to learn guitar, it hurt!!!

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I'm really (rock'n) rolling now....

"Here's another golden oldie!" (Spoken in a REALLY bad Cheesy Radio DJ voice...)

As I write this letter
Send my love to you
Remember that I'll always
Be in love with you

Treasure these few words
Till we're together
Keep all my love forever
P.S. I love you
you, you, you

I'll be comin' home again to you, love
Until the day I do love
P.S. I love you
you, you, you


BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs

??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries

She finally quit on...

1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on

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There's nothing you can know that isn't known.
Nothing you can see that isn't shown.
Nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be.
It's easy.
All you need is love, all you need is love,
love,love is All you need.

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Amen, nia...


BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs

??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries

She finally quit on...

1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on

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nai17... have you seen the movie???

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not yet....but, my DD loved it and I just bought her the DVD....maybe I will get to see it this week-end....but, it will have to after Elizabeth, The Golden Age....which I plan on watching tonight.

btw....I was 6 in 1970 too....I got Abbey Road as a birthday gift.....I had older siblings who were huge Beatles fans....when my 1 brother moved out of the house, he left me his album collection...I was a pretty cool 5th grader. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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that's a good movie too.

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Here, There and Everywhere

To lead a better life I need my love to be here...

Here, making each day of the year
Changing my life with a wave of her hand
Nobody can deny that there's something there

There, running my hands through her hair
Both of us thinking how good it can be
Someone is speaking but she doesn't know he's there

I want her everywhere and if she's beside me
I know I need never care
But to love her is to need her everywhere
Knowing that love is to share

Each one believing that love never dies
Watching her eyes and hoping I'm always there

I want her everywhere and if she's beside me
I know I need never care
But to love her is to need her everywhere
Knowing that love is to share

Each one believing that love never dies
Watching her eyes and hoping I'm always there

To be there and everywhere
Here, there and everywhere



I'll be puttin' that movie on my LONG list. Thanks FLT2H


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don't put it too low on that list <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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In 1969/70 I was nonexistent.

"You tell me that you've got everything you want and your bird can sing but you don't get me!"

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One of the most beautiful and poignant Beatles songs:

If I fell in love with you
Would you promise to be true
and help me understand,
cause I've been in love before
and I know that love is more
than just holding hands.

If I give my heart to you
I must be sure
from the very start that you
would love me more than her

If I trust in you
Oh please, don't run and hide
if I love you too
Oh Please, don't hurt my pride
like her
cause I couldn't stand the pain
and I
would be sad if our new love
was in vain

so I hope you see
that I would love to love you
and that she
will cry
when she learns we are two

if I Fell in Love with you.


BS (me) 51
FWH 53
M 28 1/2 years

1st PA early 1984
DDay late march 1984

2nd EA/PA Dec 04 - Dec 07
3rd PA Aug 07 - Nov 07
D-Day Nov. 25, 2007 2:30 p.m. (for both #2 & 3)
in recovery

DD - 20 yrs
DS - 23 yrs

We don't see things as they are - we see things as WE are. - Anais Nin
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With a Little Help From My Friends

What would you think if I sang out of tune,
Would you stand up and walk out on me.
Lend me your ears and I'll sing you a song,
And I'll try not to sing out of key.

I get by with a little help from my friends,
I get high with a little help from my friends,
I'm gonna try with a little help from my friends.

What do I do when my love is away.
(Does it worry you to be alone)
How do I feel by the end of the day
(Are you sad because you're on your own)

No I get by with a little help from my friends,
I get high with a little help from my friends,
Oh, I'm gonna try with a little help from my friends.

Do you need anybody,
I need somebody to love.
Could it be anybody
I want somebody to love.

Do you believe in love at first sight,
Yes I'm certain that it happens all the time.
What do you see when you turn out the light,
I can't tell you, but I know it's mine.

Oh I get by with a little help from my friends.
I get high with a little help from my friends,
Oh I'm gonna try with a little help from my friends.

Do you need anybody,
I just need somebody to love,
Could it be anybody,
I want somebody to love.

Oh I get by with a little help from my friends,
Mm I'm gonna try with a little help from my friends,
Oh I get high with a little help from my friends,
Yes I get by with a little help from my friends.


(See that sixth set of lines? What on earth is that talking about? Frankly, I think they'd been smoking too much happy grass when they wrote some of their lyrics.)

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nia17 - very cool 5th grader!! nice.

graycloud, not even alive??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> wow you are a baby!!

WorkingItOut - I agree.

Hi Cinderlla - good one.

And here is one more from me, i can't believe I didn't post it before:

Don't Let Me Down:

It's a love that lasts forever,
It's a love that has no past.


Every Sunday morning we have a radio station with a program called "Breakfast with the Beatles". DD18 actually gets up just to listen to it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Oh, and over the weekend, she made "celephone flowers of yellow and green" (Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds). Decoration for her room. she has a really cool room with so much stuff representing all the things she has loved through out the years.

Yup, she realy has the Beatles bug BAD!!!

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