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Re: Need Input from the Pros - Do You Think he is still Contacting OW??? LuckyLadyinFL #2032315 03/13/08 12:49 PM
Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 658 S suamico Member
suamico Member S Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 658	Quote He just wants "it all to be over". Did you ask him what he means by this? Quote I don't plan to contact OW, OWH, or WH again! I'm finally done and have to just stay the [dark] course. It seems like the OWH has his head in the sand. You gave him the info he asked for so there isn’t more you can do there. A dark plan B is a good idea but are you prepared for it? Is your WH still living in your home with you? W (me) 44 H 43 Married 19 years DS 17 DS 15 DD 13 DD 8

Re: Need Input from the Pros - Do You Think he is still Contacting OW??? suamico #2032316 03/13/08 01:35 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 19 L LuckyLadyinFL Junior Member
LuckyLadyinFL Junior Member L Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 19	Suamico, My H would like to put it all behind us, but yet he exhibits all the signs (and that's why I wanted it verified on this forum) that he is probably still contacting the OW and still in the fog. He says he is living transparently, but what about all the evidence that I listed above. Since I don't trust him, I watch and review phone records, etc. Dr. Harley says that it does not do any good to be doing your part trying to resolve the reasons the affair occurred in the first place until the WS gives up the OP. In fact, it makes it worse. As of last night,my husband went to our condo and thus far today, I have been "dark". Am I ready for Plan B? Not really because today I want to pick up the phone and call him, but so far, thanks mostly to all you "pro's" here, I have not done that! LL Me-BS-54 WH-59-4yr A; his DD-20 DS-23; mine DS-20 DS-17 7.5 yr M DDay1-7/07 DDay2-9/07 DDay3-12/07

Re: Need Input from the Pros - Do You Think he is still Contacting OW??? LuckyLadyinFL #2032317 03/13/08 01:58 PM
Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 10,044 M medc Member
medc Member M Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 10,044	hello...anybody home...your H abuses you. Anything and everything else at this point is irrelevant. He can go out and f all the ho's he wants to so long as he leaves you alone. You should be in touch with the police, a shelter and a lawyer.

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