Hi,

Just pops in and give you my opinion. Limit your knowledge about the other household. It is none of your business unless it threaten the safety of your kids. I told my 2 D that I don't want to know about my exW house biz unless they want me to do rescue them out from there. I never ask them about exW house biz. Out of sights (ears too) out of mind.

You probably aware that I helped exW of OM to move on. Before her Dv she called me every day about OM biz that impacted her. This went on for almost 3 years. She refused to let go, her tx discontinued and gave up on her. I stayed with her even she was a nut case and won't put NC with exH plus interfering her kids biz with their father. She is an ex from hell. I kept reminding her that she should limit her contact ... finally last year she got it. She is getting better as she put distance with her ex. I have yet received any call from her for a few months. I am part of her past that she has let go. I know she is doing well.

God bless.

-rh-