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*sigh* I've been trying to do the no contact thing with my H but it's difficult. I've had this craving to be touched by him and it's eating at me. I never realized how much I missed sex with him until I'm not getting it, I suppose. So, stupid me, I sent him a sexual text. God, I feel like an idiot. He will probably be disgusted or laugh about it with the OW. I'm upset with myself.


You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

The person who is always finding fault seldom finds anything else.

I pity the fool. - Mr. T
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I don't want to hate him, but I very nearly do right now. I don't like the way that I'm feeling, just so hopeless. He has made me feel like my love is completely worthless. Right now I don't know if I want to continue to wait to give it a chance. I don't know if my heart can go through this again.


You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

The person who is always finding fault seldom finds anything else.

I pity the fool. - Mr. T
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Ok my pity party is over for the moment I think. I just want to get this show on the road! And I need help, badly.

What can I do to get back into Plan A. I started the no contact situation before I found this site and I had asked him not to contact me until he was finished with her. He still says that they are just friends and that he left me because he doesn't love me and doesn't want to be with me, but he is staying at her house, etc, etc. I know that she plans to go back to live with her parents, but who knows when that will be? Blah, babbling...

Ok, Plan A. How can I get back there? WHat should I do? HELP!@


You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

The person who is always finding fault seldom finds anything else.

I pity the fool. - Mr. T
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