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AW3!!
Great job these past 24 hours.
It feels good doesn’t it? Remember, you have no, none, zero control over your WW’s actions. You can only control you and what you do.
Great job!
And MyRev is probably correct; this adultery has almost certainly been going on longer than 2-weeks. Be prepared for more and more bad news on this count.
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Just spoke w/ OM's parents. They are EXTEMELY disturbed and were introduced to my W on Mother's Day!
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Gentlemen, we are in for a BUMPY ride!
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All "heck" is about to break loose - be prepared - locate your HAZMAT SUIT so when the [censored] flies it bounces off stay strong - this is WAR link to The Art of WAR !
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Just spoke w/ OM's parents. They are EXTEMELY disturbed and were introduced to my W on Mother's Day! Let me guess ... OM didn't bother to tell his parents that your WW was still married, and had abandoned her BH and children??? If that is what they were told ... what was their reaction to your "correct" information?
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Just spoke w/ OM's parents. They are EXTEMELY disturbed and were introduced to my W on Mother's Day! Oh dear me, did they leave out the little fact that she is a married woman with 3 little children who is having an adulterous affair?  WHOOPS!!!
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Yes, I expect the feces is about to impact the rotary oscillator soon.
When she implodes be calm and cool and just tell her you are fighting to save your family.
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Perfect!!
The exposure wave is rolling....
Good job!!!
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6 years of discovery.
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Abandoned, All I really have to say is But I would like the others tell you to expect the wrath of your W to rain upon you. I would pack the boxes put them on the front porch. Change locks if yourlawyer says you can and leave. I would also video tape the entire house so that YOU have a record of what is there now, and what she may have taken later. You do realize this is more of your "controling" behavior don't you.  It will be time for you to pull back soon. God Bless, JL
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AW3,
I am so happy for you! Yes! Make it happen!
But beware of the reaction you will get! If she calls you and starts arguing and justifying and yelling, "How dare you!" just hang up.
Or better yet, meet babble with babble. While she rambles incoherently ask her some off the wall question that makes no sense whatsoever.
Ask her, "Do you know anyone who likes snapple?"
"Do you think Jar Jar Binks is mis-understood?"
If she continues, go on with more:
"Do you think Hillary is going to pull this off?"
"Do you think there is life on Mars?"
"Do you think ants have weight lifting competitions?"
"What do you think is the winning weight?"
She will, of course, continue to yell and be nuts. But you respond to babble with babble.
I know this isn't reverse babble, but why not have fun with wayward craziness?
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She moved away with the kids April 08. I contested it and got a lot more time with my kids. She's unhappy that I want to stay involved in their lives and don't settle for being an "every other weekend" dad.
Never going to happen.
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Did you son actually strike his mother???
I didn't see anyone else ask this question. If he did strike her he needs to be punished- regardless of what she's done.
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Yeah, your guys are correct. I just got a voicemail from W telling me how vindictive I am. Then OM calls me crying that I am a horrible person for calling his parents...how could I?
He then proceeds to question MY morals and to tell me I am harassing him. I told him to look in the mirror, I'M not the one having an adulterous affair with another man's wife!
I could tell he was really only worried and trying to see if I had spoken to HIS W yet. I didn't tell him either way, but, she hasn't called me back yet. Apparently, she's a school teacher and can't call until after classes.
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The story seems to be that he "playfully and accidentally" hit her in the mouth. His sister verified that it was W who went nuts and pinned him against a brick wall by his throat!
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Opps! The toilets are backing up in Camelot.
You are on your feet, calling the shots and you are scaring them.
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His sister verified that it was W who went nuts and pinned him against a brick wall by his throat! Document that one and get it to your Attorney.
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Yeah, your guys are correct. I just got a voicemail from W telling me how vindictive I am. Then OM calls me crying that I am a horrible person for calling his parents...how could I?
He then proceeds to question MY morals and to tell me I am harassing him. I told him to look in the mirror, I'M not the one having an adulterous affair with another man's wife!
I could tell he was really only worried and trying to see if I had spoken to HIS W yet. I didn't tell him either way, but, she hasn't called me back yet. Apparently, she's a school teacher and can't call until after classes. In all seriousness, they will feel under fire from all directions (as they should), and in the wayward mindset will decide it's all YOUR doing. They might try to slap you with a temporary restraining order. Make sure you talk to OMW as soon as possible, and if there is anyone else who needs exposing to you better do that quickly too. Good job so far! I also second the motion to leave a copy of the ten commandments on top of her stuff with the PBL, with the one about adultery highlighted.
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Yeah, your guys are correct. I just got a voicemail from W telling me how vindictive I am. Then OM calls me crying that I am a horrible person for calling his parents...how could I? How could you be SO MEAN to DEFEND your family from his assault!! you are so mean! So judgmental! :eek: You should just be nice and allow him to destroy your children's family! sigh... He then proceeds to question MY morals and to tell me I am harassing him. Wow, that one really hurt!! How immoral of you to expose his ......immorality!  mean, mean, mean! I could tell he was really only worried and trying to see if I had spoken to HIS W yet. I didn't tell him either way, but, she hasn't called me back yet. Apparently, she's a school teacher and can't call until after classes. Well, that does it, now we know you are meaner than a JUNKYARD DOG!! You are going to "HURT HIS WIFE" by telling her the truth!! :eek: [its not the adultery that hurts, of course ] You is mean as HALE, ab!!
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Opps! The toilets are backing up in Camelot. **snort** LOL
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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