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hey ab, do not answer the phone any more today, ok? Don't give them the satisfaction of yelling at you. Just let them twist in the wind and listen - and SAVE - their messages for court and for purposes of entertainment. It is great fun to hear the crackheads go crazy when you turn on the lights in the crack house. 
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No doubt, she has called at least a dozen times in the past hour or so, I haven't answered ANY...but I do wish she would leave a voicemail so I could at least laugh and how you guys were right.
Oops, there goes the phone...she's calling again. Maybe she'll leave a message!?!
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Ouch! They are like a couple ants under the magnifying glass.
I feel so sorry for them......no....wait...it was indigestion.
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she is calling to tell you she "was going to work on the marriage BUT NOW SHE'S NOT, you sorry SOB!!" Even though yesterday it sure didn't LOOK LIKE she was going to work on the marriage, she was!! But, now she's not because you ruined her affair, dagnabit!!!!  Hey, how did you get those phone #s? From the P.I.?
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What if I text her back something like this:
"NEVER question my morals, integrity, or character again. I am not vindictive in any way, only attempting to fight for my family and children. Look in the mirror for immorality and unfaithfulness. U are the adulterer, not ME!"
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LOL ab!!!
Good for you, don't answer her calls.
Full steam ahead!
Get that PBL ready. And those boxes...
This is gonna be one heck of a weekend for them.
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What if I text her back something like this:
"NEVER question my morals, integrity, or character again. I am not vindictive in any way, only attempting to fight for my family and children. Look in the mirror for immorality and unfaithfulness. U are the adulterer, not ME!" I wouldn't. Let them WORRY about what you might do next.
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What if I text her back something like this:
"NEVER question my morals, integrity, or character again. I am not vindictive in any way, only attempting to fight for my family and children. Look in the mirror for immorality and unfaithfulness. U are the adulterer, not ME!" noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Don't give her the satisfaction of a FIGHT. She wants a response. Don't respond. PLEASE! If she does come over, just say: "so sorry you are upset!" 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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"NEVER question my morals, integrity, or character again. I am not vindictive in any way, only attempting to fight for my family and children. Look in the mirror for immorality and unfaithfulness. U are the adulterer, not ME!" I wouldn't, but if you do add strength and courage. But I agree with Mel. Don't just say: "so sorry you are upset!" I always add, "Want a cookie?" Waywards love that.
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More internet research. I actually found OM under a different address, which opened up his entire background. I spoke with his ex-father-in-law first, who told me his parents names and assured me that his daughter would LOVE to speak with me. His parnets told me everything about him except his blood type! I even know what church he was ordained in (I'll be calling them later!). Intellus.com is expensive, but if you search in the right places, you can find anything out about anybody. The PI never called or emailed me back.
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If she comes over, I won't let her in without a sherrif's deputy present. I can't allow myself to be falsely accused of anything... my kids need ME here where I'm SUPPOSED TO BE!
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I could tell he was really only worried and trying to see if I had spoken to HIS W yet. I didn't tell him either way, but, she hasn't called me back yet. Apparently, she's a school teacher and can't call until after classes. Abandoned, didnt you say he left his wife six weeks ago? Why is he so concerned about his wife finding out? Could it be that he has been less than truthful with his wife?  Who would have seen that coming?
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She left a message the last time..."will you PLEASE call me?"
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So, he's D from his last W?
How come his XFIL knew ALL about your WW?
Did his parents think your WW was D?
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AW3!
You are becoming dangerous Dude!
The whole story is soon to unfold. They have been at this a while.
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If she comes over, I won't let her in without a sherrif's deputy present. I can't allow myself to be falsely accused of anything... my kids need ME here where I'm SUPPOSED TO BE! Good man!
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I think he knows that, in our state, adultery is a big no-no when it comes to custody, he does have a 10 year old daughter. In fact, our state just passed a bill allowing me to SUE HIS PANTS OFF for getting involved with my wife!
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ab, you da man! You did great!! See, what you have single handedly done is destroyed any hope of a FUTURE with affairees because your W will not be allowed to darken the doorstep of the OM's parents again. You have also given the OMW some potential ammunition to use in any legal actions against the OM. You have inflicted a MAJOR BLOW to the affair today. GOOD JOB! BRAVO!
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She left a message the last time..."will you PLEASE call me?" NOW she wants to talk, huh? Too bad you're not in the mood.
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He and his exW are not YET legally divorced, thus, it is still adultery for him as well!
And, NO, he told his parents she was seperated and they assumed for quite some time, NOT 8 days! They had NO IDEA he was a home wrecker!
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