oh yes, that is much better! batyacht...

is it a "batyacht" Mr. Medc who is hiding the bat key from me?

mlhb

I guess I have to change her name now to ...Catwoman (my dogs will not be happy as it is now named baydog).

they'll adjust LOL HAHAHA

mlhb

otoh,

WOMAN'S PERFECT BREAKFAST
She's sitting at the table with her gourmet coffee.
Her son is on the cover of the Wheaties box.
Her daughter is on the cover of Business Week.

Her boyfriend is on the cover of Playgirl.
And her husband is on the back of the milk carton.


All Blessings,
Jerry

cute jerry!

my exes face probably should be gracing a milk carton! ugh!

mlhb

what, no flirting today medc?

YOU ARE NO FUN MISTER!

hehe

mlhb

GAG GAG GAG!!!

I don't have a myspace page. Honestly, I do not believe in them. I think they cause nothing but trouble.

Well, not surprisingly, my ex has a myspace page. What an idiot.

Anyway, I decided to peak on over there to see if maybe he is bashing ow on there or something and I found 2 things. First off, all of a sudden his page is now "private" so I can't see it. BUT, the little blurb that you can see of their profile says how he is feeling today is "hopeful" and he put some garbage on there about how sometimes you have to "step back and breathe and some other crap and then something believing that if things are meant to be they will work themselves out"

ok, please excuse me while i freakin hurl here.
So, apparently he is all sad that she broke up with him.
oh, poor poor ex... she bwoke his little heart.

WHAT AN IDIOT! SHE IS A WH*ORE, WHAT DID HE EXPECT?! HOLY CRAP, SHE WAS ONLY MARRIED 4 MONTHS BEFORE SHE STARTED CHEATING. SHE WAS WITH MY EX AND SOME OTHER GUY! AND THAT WAS HER HISTORY. DID HE ACTUALLY THINK THIS TIME WOULD BE DIFFERENT? SHE HAS ANOTHER BOYFRIEND! OMG...

Good, I hope his heart is splitting in two. Now he knows how me and the kids felt.

I was stupid to go over and read that, but I thought for sure I might read some good other woman bashing. Instead I had to read that pathetic loser crap. oye vey!

God, I can't wait to move.

mlhb

this is what PWC's quote is on his myspace page. He sure doesn't believe in what he quotes, but whatever.

Step back mlhb,

None of this is any longer yur concern.

all blessings,
Jerry

I know Jerry, I know...

It just irks me. I want to say something to him so badly.
I will be the bigger person but I would love nothing better than to spew some venom right now.

mlhb

And when and if you do, you will have realized that it has fallen on the same deaf ears that all of this has fallen on already. And then you will kick yourself for somehow thinking, that your words would have actually made a difference!

Step back to the peace you had before all of this came to light.

You are regressing!

All blessings,
Jerry

oh, I won't spew off anything. That is why I am doing it here. I stepped back and purposely have not said anything knowing it will fall on deaf ears. It always does. It is not worth my oxygen. He will never see the wrong he did. He will never be sorry for his actions. He will always and forever think of himself first and foremost.

And he is getting what he deserves.

"vengance is mine sayeth the Lord"

I will let GOD knock him down to where he needs to be knocked.

HE will have a far greater effect than I ever could.

mlhb

http://www.bostonducktours.com/

I found MEDC's boat!!

I dunno about about a batkey but there could be a duck key !!

All blessings,
Jerry

oh boy... lucky me.....

lol

I have seen a pik of his boat, he emailed it to me. It is REALLY nice. and I am sure I could find that batkey somewhere on board... ;-)

mlhb

ok, so i had done so well these last few years separating myself from the drama. i personally HATE drama.

why then are certain things bothering me right now? for example:

1. what i said yesterday about ex being so "devastated" over the breakup with ow
2. the kids tell me yesterday when i picked them up that their father, ow, ow's mother and sister, and exes parents all went out to dinner last night. wtf?
3. that ex and ow were all hugs and kisses in front of them

ok, so i broke it down a bit..

i think with number 1, i am just thinking he never felt that way about me to be so hurt like that. but, actually, the first time we separated he did feel a real deep sadness. i think i am moreso upset because he is all sad over a wh*re he was having an affair with. blech!

the second one just makes me feel betrayed by my ex inlaws again. now, i have to say, for the longest time his parents were so good to me. they were there for me when i needed to cry and when i needed help during all of exes affairs. BUT, i have not talked to them in almost 2 years probably and i know blood is thicker than water. i just have a hard time that they are accepting ow enough to go to dinner with her and her family. it makes me sick. and if they are broken up than what is going on? i'm am thinking no one knows or believes that she may have someone else in the picture. i believe she does. her exh and i are good friends and i remember the things he told me when he was going through the affair. she still lived at home for a time and she kind of played both of them for a while continuing to be affectionate with her h but screwing my husband. i have the feeling that is where she is at again. i don't know what goes on behind closed doors of course but it just seems all strange to me that his parents have to come here to help him buy a house because she broke up with him and yet they are all going out to dinner together?

and number 3 just through me off as well.

and why does any of it matter to me at all? i don't know.
maybe because if the ending of our marriage couldn't be amicable than i don't want the ending of them to be as well?

i am just venting here but it is really bothering me that i am actually thinking about this crap. trust me, i have better use of my brain space than this. so i don't get it. i almost wish i had never been told of the break up. (i know because my realtor told me. he went to her husband and told them that ow and he were done and that he needed to buy a house and could they help him find one. realtor and her husband used to be really good friends of ours. during our marital mess they took my side so they are moreso my friends than his now).

yuck, make the thoughts go away!!

mlhb

and that, my dear, is the $64,000 question.

I think I am just mad that's all.

It was a bunch of unnecessary crap that my kids had to be involved in. I am a mama bear wanting to protect her cubs. It just seems like such a cluster [censored] of dysfunctional mess over there right now. And everyone is playing like nothing is wrong, even the parents! What is wrong with being honest with children instead of pretending everything is ok and then, at the last minute, as he moves into a new place ALONE, then tell the kids.

I don't buy into that philosophy. I feel like my kids are being messed with.

There, that is why I am thinking about it, and that is why I am MAD!

mlhb

p.s.

how are you doing today mr. hot medc?

good, how are you?

Actually, I am off to a funeral...long day ahead...hope you have a nice day.

What I find really unfortunate is that this is just the tip of the iceberg. If your WH continues on with other women in the same manner, not taking a timeout to fix himself, he will continue to drag your children thru one bad relationship after another.

That is why WE have to be together, happy, strong, confident and armed with enough knowledge to help them thru their rough passage.

SL: it would take a miracle for him to take time out to "fix" himself. And he is all sad and i imagine going through what one would term here "withdrawl".. makes me want to hurl. i could never in a million years live with a wayward husband who was going through withdrawl from there ho. he is my ex of 3 years now and it makes me sick that he is all "boohoo" over this. give me a freakin break. i am SO GLAD i got him out of my life when i did. so glad.

and yes, i do worry about what kind of women he will have in my kids lives. that is why i am not a date-a-holic or anything. it matters who we introduce them to. they LEARN from US. i don't want them around just any old guys. but, i can't control what he does and i don't even try to. i just teach my children right.

MEDC: sorry about the funeral. hope all is ok.

mlhb