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I want to say that if my husband went to an escort we would be DONE. But i know you love your man so I will continue.
Sometimes your man (and mine) will not know what he wants. It is simply unknown to him. In manspeak, he may say he wants you to orgasm. But what they could mean is "I want a take charge woman in bed who makes sounds of pleasure so I know she is enjoying herself."
Everyday, does he seem content? or is he grouchy. Men seem pretty simple to me, feed em, give em good sex, and praise them and usually they are pretty content.
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Men seem pretty simple to me, feed em, give em good sex, and praise them and usually they are pretty content.  Very well said, I would just add..."and dont cheat on them"
BS ME 35, XWW 37, DS 7, DD 5, DS 5, D-day1 12-20-2007.Multiple Ddays
Divorce 1/29/2009
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He's never grouchy, he's the most easygoing man I've ever known. We get along great for the most part. My biggest concern is that he spends so much time on singles sites and looking at personal ads. I know, from the keylogger, that he has responded to some. As far as I can tell, he hasn't met up with anyone but I don't know. When I've asked him about the sites he goes too, he says he's only looking. We haven't had a real sex life for over a year. Not by my choice. I know there are things I can improve on in the bedroom. I can hope that will get him interested in me again and stop the online stuff.
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Men seem pretty simple to me, feed em, give em good sex, and praise them and usually they are pretty content. Very well said, I would just add..."and dont cheat on them" Beck, i commented without even reading your thread. I appologize for making light of it -stella just cracks me up! Anyway, sorry you are in this situation. You deserve a lot better! we ALL do! p.s. BOB stand for Battery Operated Boyfriend.
BS ME 35, XWW 37, DS 7, DD 5, DS 5, D-day1 12-20-2007.Multiple Ddays
Divorce 1/29/2009
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He's never grouchy, he's the most easygoing man I've ever known. We get along great for the most part. My biggest concern is that he spends so much time on singles sites and looking at personal ads. I know, from the keylogger, that he has responded to some. As far as I can tell, he hasn't met up with anyone but I don't know. When I've asked him about the sites he goes too, he says he's only looking. We haven't had a real sex life for over a year. Not by my choice. I know there are things I can improve on in the bedroom. I can hope that will get him interested in me again and stop the online stuff. Beck, dear lady, you are looking for a fix button that doesn't exist. I suspect you want the companionship. He is ambivilent. He has abandoned anything but roommate status and he is looking beyond that to bettering himself while hanging on to you until something better does come along. Sheesh. How many more insults will you gloss over? Larry
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The truth I don't want to face, I guess ...
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Sometimes I don't know what to think....
I had a really bad day at work today. Had IM'd H through out the day so he knew the kind of day it was. Extremely stressful.
Came home and H had flowers for me and dinner.
Keeps me confused.
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