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I still want to fight for my M and there is no alienation of affection law. There still appears to be no contact with OM time will tell. W is really still mad about exposure and keeps bringing it up also loads of fog and reinventing history to justify what she did. But we are getting on better than we have.
I have had legal advice and the conclusion is to sell the house and split the assets. This will take time in the current market and it needs work to sell, it could be 12 months!! This give me time to finish plan A and move to plan B if required. If they still work together, there is still contact....since she is still angry at you and is justifying her wayward actions...the pull for contact would be too great and there would be no reason for her to end contact. Was your legal advise based on the premise that you both want to separate?? Or were you clear that you did not want to separate. If you do not want to separate, why would there be a plan to sell the house and split the assets? This does not make sense to me.
Lake
BW-53
FWH-54
H had EA 3 weeks 06
Married 1977
N C 4-10-06
3 DSs
In Recovery
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Exactly as lake said. Why sell the house if you want to recover.
Once you sell the house WW will come into money. Never, ever finance an affair. With this money WW will be able to set up a nice affair shack for her and OM. Then forget recovering.
Many lawyers give advice on how to protect your wealth, get you into court, and charge you for their services.
This type of advice does not help marriages recover.
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Hi bro, this has been a few years but I was just wondering how your situation turned out. Were you able to finally R with your W or did she follow thru on the D?
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