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I'm still not sure if I answered your post in the context you were asking, but thanks for your concern regardless.

Your welcome and I think you answered my question. Maybe it is a question for FF as well.

FWIW, and its just my opinion, I see a transition in your e-mail to FF.

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If you were in my shoes, how would you connect these dots???

You see, FF, you are supposed to be protecting me with extraordinary precautions, but instead you INCREASED my anxiety 10 fold by your ACTIONS.

I'll try to explain what I mean. When a WW takes an action that triggers us, we generally can form 1 of 2 conclusions. The first is they just didn't "connect the dots." They just didn't see how that action could trigger us. Second, is that they did see how that action could trigger us, but depriortized us through indifference or prioritized themselves.

Unfortunately, observing one's actions in a single incident or a series of incidents will never "proove" that in that instance, it was one or the other.

When I say I see a transition, the first half of your e-mail seems to be suggesting conclusion #1 above. While the second half seems to be suggesting conclusion #2. I think determining whether you overreacted is dependent on which of those conclusions you settle on.

No advice to give, just throwing it out there.

Me 43 BH
MT 43 WW
Married 20 years, No Kids, 2 Difficult Cats
D-day July, 2005
4.5 False Recoveries
Me - recovered
The M - recovered