Gina, I feel for you. Ike is also a serial cheater, so I know what you are going through. I hope that your WS's medications help to even out her moods, I know it will be a big help to both of you.

Good luck.

Gina:

Please research the posting of FightingAlone-Again

I believe that is the posters name. You can find some posts from her early in Bugsmom's thread, or LilSis's thread.

She was in an actual Marriage with a lesbian. They had children together.

Her spouse was just unwilling to make the committment to monogamy basically.

Your CU partner tried to commit suicide because she was losing OW. And then sat in her Hospital bed hoping to get her back.

Time to check out of this relationship.

That might not sound MB, true, but this woman has issues that SHE has to deal with.

How long has she been abusing her meds?
What was her lifestyle before meeting you?
Being BP and manic can be controlled by meds, but deciding not to take them or just doing what you want to do anyway, is cause to put the brakes on any relationship.

She might step out of this hospital bed and reform herself. And commit to you. Longshot. But possible.

What are YOUR boundaries? Why do you let her cross them so easily? What is it about you that you allow yourself to be taken advantage of like this? What attracts her so to you?

But look up fightingalone-again's posts. She got alot of support and discussed many of the issues and explored some of the differences in safe-sex relationships.

LG