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Re: Embarrassment for the BS! Orchid #2119440 09/02/08 05:34 AM
Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 83 L LynnLee Member
LynnLee Member L Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 83	Originally Posted by Orchid Hi, Those are old links. What I can do is answer any specific questions regarding reverse babble and the stages of grieving. Hope that helps! Orchid I read the 5 stages of grieving. If this is true then i am STUCK in the ANGER stage and cannot get out. I thought I was further along than this. BW (Me) 40 WH 40 D-Day March 2008 Co-Worker Affair lasted 13 months

Re: Embarrassment for the BS! schoolbus #2119441 09/02/08 05:37 AM
Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 83 L LynnLee Member
LynnLee Member L Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 83	Originally Posted by schoolbus LynnLee, "They are jealous of me. They know that they would be too weak to stand on their feet through this kind of ordeal. Poor pitiful gossipy souls!" Smile sweetly, and move on, because you are too busy with your marriage to worry about those gossipy idiots anyway. SB SB, Your words and advice and so uplifting. I hope I can be in your shoes one day to be able to help others as you do! BW (Me) 40 WH 40 D-Day March 2008 Co-Worker Affair lasted 13 months

Re: Embarrassment for the BS! LynnLee #2119469 09/02/08 08:00 AM
Joined: May 2007 Posts: 387 M Ms_Manners Member
Ms_Manners Member M Joined: May 2007 Posts: 387	The way I see it is this... You should tell everyone you know about WH's doings. Anyone who is not supportive of you and your plan, really shouldn't be a part of your life. I very easily found out who my friends were with one simple test. The ones who stood by me and supported me in my time of need, they matter. The ones who bailed, they don't. Hell. I have supporters in people I barely knew that were good friends with WH. And, even the affair friends have told me that they wish me well. That in itself is a big one. FBS - 28 Status: Divorced (thankfully)

Re: Embarrassment for the BS! Ms_Manners #2119627 09/02/08 01:34 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,499 N not2fun Member
not2fun Member N Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,499	Is it weird that I never felt embarrassed????.... It may be due to the fact that I found MB right away, and did exposure right away and WS angry foggy line about all of that was "Why would you tell people this?? Aren't you embarrassed?? Because YOU should have been keeping your husband happy?".....after that line, any embarrassment I may have had went right out the door..... I also didn't expose to too many people (though WS would disagree...), though once you expose you don't have control over who those people will tell and so forth. But then again, I figure when we make it and have an amazing marriage, it really won't matter..... ..... not2fun

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