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Re: Will stay because I'm going insane! Dealan-de #2129803 09/19/08 09:59 AM
Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 173 H hurtmomof2 Member
hurtmomof2 Member H Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 173	Good idea. Thanks! Me: BS-37 WH: 39 OC born 6/08

Re: Will stay because I'm going insane! hurtmomof2 #2129811 09/19/08 10:12 AM
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Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	Quote she apparently send him several very mean and threatning texts. you can post the texts she sent here, if you leave out any parts that give away identity I bet'cha your WH has sent some text doozies hisownself the more he tries to paint OW as THE villain here - the more I worry about your recovery You have said WH has shown no remorse and feels no guilt - so if he throws the entire poo-bucket at OW it means he's not feeling responsible for this mess. the more he attacks OW the less insight he shows into his own weaknesses be observant recovery will eventually require humility and an admission of guilt and a feeling of remorse Pep LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: Will stay because I'm going insane! Pepperband #2129823 09/19/08 10:40 AM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 8,344 D Dealan-de Member
Dealan-de Member D Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 8,344	Originally Posted by Pepperband Quote she apparently send him several very mean and threatning texts. you can post the texts she sent here, if you leave out any parts that give away identity I bet'cha your WH has sent some text doozies hisownself the more he tries to paint OW as THE villain here - the more I worry about your recovery You have said WH has shown no remorse and feels no guilt - so if he throws the entire poo-bucket at OW it means he's not feeling responsible for this mess. the more he attacks OW the less insight he shows into his own weaknesses be observant recovery will eventually require humility and an admission of guilt and a feeling of remorsePep YES YES YES! I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution? O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!

Re: Will stay because I'm going insane! Dealan-de #2129840 09/19/08 11:04 AM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ... F faithful follower Member
faithful follower Member F Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ...	Quote recovery will eventually require humility and an admission of guilt and a feeling of remorse These words are key. Faith me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49 DS 30 DD 21 DS 15 OCDS 8

Re: Will stay because I'm going insane! Pepperband #2129866 09/19/08 11:47 AM
Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 173 H hurtmomof2 Member
hurtmomof2 Member H Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 173	You may have misundertood me. He is not making the OW out to be the bad one. He hasn't even said anything negative about her, except that she likes women, and that's not even really a bad thing to say, it's just a fact. I'm just saying that the other day he was able to see her bad side, which I'm assuming he hasn't had to deal with before. I know I said in my earlier posts that I thought he didn't care or was remorseful. But at the MC appt. last night he did seem remorseful and was sorry. Could he be telling me what I want to hear in front of the counselor? Sure, of course. But right now I have to let his actions speak for himself. Words are easy to say. What he does is what I will believe. Me: BS-37 WH: 39 OC born 6/08

Re: Will stay because I'm going insane! hurtmomof2 #2129868 09/19/08 11:50 AM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ... F faithful follower Member
faithful follower Member F Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ...	Quote But right now I have to let his actions speak for himself. Words are easy to say. What he does is what I will believe. AMEN! Faith me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49 DS 30 DD 21 DS 15 OCDS 8

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