This is a large county we live in. I have not revealed until now that I know the Sheriff on a business level. I have his personal cell phone and he has mine.

I have played by the chain of command rules until now. I am not afraid of persecution. I used to say in my younger days..."they have no idea who there messin' with".

I am very hopeful for you and your situation. You seem to be doing all the right things.

Why not use the personal connection to the Sheriff? Enlist his assistance without attacking his department as a whole or his personal management style.

Best wishes for success.

AM

It has been said before by many posters - thig gig is not for sissies. An ongoing adultery strikes the betrayed through the gut and heart. The continued assault consumes a heck of lot of energy mental and physical.

Dec 15 is a good check point to evaluate where you are and the adultery is heading.

There are other good posters you may want to read like dazednconfusedks, mywifeIlove, mortarman and Hopethisworks. These guys were successful whether or not the M was saved because they were very focused on the plans.

Btw - Plan B success is correlated to how good the Plan A is performed. The last week of Plan A has to be the best performance of all in order to get the full effects of the Plan B letter and going totally dark.

In addition - the holidays are getting close. Many good Plan A opportunities and family time that the WW will find herself lonely. Keep that in mind when making the jump to Plan B.

Hang in there - there are no easy and guaranteed solutions.

You should call him. No Sheriff is going to want a bad light shown on his Department because OM can't keep it in his pants around married women or OM's "friend" is threatening citizens. Sheriff should want to cut that crap out pronto.