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I am speaking from experience..not theory. So am I!
Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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It may be a while before you become indifferent about OM,but keeping no contact will help speed the process along.  Shaken, I'm not sure if this was directed to me or Mrs Hope Full, but I did want to mention I have reached indifference toward my FOM. I know now if/when he shows up in my dreams it is always in a way that he means nothing and my DH and I are always united. LC
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It may be a while before you become indifferent about OM,but keeping no contact will help speed the process along. Shaken, I'm not sure if this was directed to me or Mrs Hope Full, but I did want to mention I have reached indifference toward my FOM. I know now if/when he shows up in my dreams it is always in a way that he means nothing and my DH and I are always united. LC I'm sorry. I was referring to Mrs. Hope Full. However it is good to know you have reached this point and I am happy for you.
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I'd wanna see monkeys flyin outa my butt before I'd wanna watch that movie. Ackkk! Birthin monkeys outta your butt???  I'll pass on both!!!
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Meanwhile, Mrs hopeful is gone.
The helpful, adult posts came 2 late in the thread. What a shame.
-ol' 2long
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