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If you arent' going to out him, then get as far away from those two insane people.
They are nuttier than squirrel poo and will make you equally as nutty dealing with them.
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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I don't know if I'll discuss fully what I am going to do online just to keep the information secret. All I can say is I have gathered some evidence and it is in the right hands.
Subterfuge, All this "subterfuge" doesn't make sense. If you don't tell us what you're up to, we can't really help you. You're on an anonymous board on the internet. No one knows who you are. Are you worried about someone snooping on your end?
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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I see that you posted today. So what has the Command done as far as your situation? Are you Active Duty or Guard/Reserve? I ask because there may be a difference in how they handle this. But both would order the OM to stop having contact with her. Then if he does he would be brought up on charges for disobeying a direct order from his Commander. This on top of having sexual relations with another serviceman's wife already, will get him good. If he is Guard/Reserve I think they can activate him just to throw him into the brig!!!
Don't sit back like a puddle on the road and let cars drive over you. It is your responsibility to take this up the Chain of Command and ensure he is punished. Not just for yourself but for all other servicemen and women that have this happen to them. That is why they act so strongly on this type of thing!! Military is a team....civilians can screw each other over all they want but the military cannot have a troop deploy to the sandbox and worry that another serviceman with boink his wife. Especially while he is in harms way!!!
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Subterfuge,
I say this to almost every betrayed husband, but.....
rip OM's [censored] wide open, regardless of the consequences.
He makes "regular" OM seem not-so-bad in comparison. Buying a book about your wife's condition in order to take advantage of it?
He's one soldier who should die on a mountain in Afghanistan.
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He's one soldier who should die on a mountain in Afghanistan He should die in the slimey place where storm water runs into the sewers... (can't believe what gets hit by the PC filter these days) under the overpass on the bad side of town. He doesn't deserve to die in battle with real men... Mark
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