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Re: Need some guidance
Chryss #2162352 11/22/08 01:48 PM
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I'm thinking you need to get ready to save yourself and your kids first. I would be getting ready for Plan B. Get all your ducks in a row for that, including saving money, protecting your finances, and having a place to live.

Does hubby pitch in on the house bills?
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We're already living separately - I thought we were reconciling. I own my home, and our finances are separate now. But I'm really beginning to think that there is a whole side of him that I didn't know existed. He is like a teenager - demanding things be his way, or we don't go on. Very impatient, very flippant. This is not going to continue this way. He said he wanted to be together, now he is playing games. I was asked out on a date the other day, which I turned down. Nice man, not at all attracted to him, but it was flattering. Seems my husband isn't at all bothered by this. Thinks I should go have some fun. What the hell is that?
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Chryss #2162392 11/22/08 06:44 PM
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It is good that you have a home. I thought from your earlier posts that you might have to sell it.

Put hubby on the back burner and get ready for Plan B. You may still recover your marriage. He is acting like the typical WS - it is too soon to know if he will change.

And no dating. All that does is make an even bigger mess.
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