HF:

The Saturday Chrismas Shopping?

She was unwrapping OM.

She wanted to know when you were leaving, when you were returning, and other pertinent info so that she could do OM without being caught.

And yes, she would have brought a bag home from Walmart of her "shopping"

THe PI will have everything you need.

The kissing in the car.

The check in time

The grab-[censored] across the parking lot

The hotel room they enter.

Sorry...

By Monday, you will have everything you need.

Personally, I would go to your mothers, and leave the kids and join the PI to knock on the door.

LG

I am very prepared and today should be very interesting. A lot of questions last night as to where me and the kids would be and for how long.

Joining the PI is in my palns for tonight. Yesterday was very interesting. W usually calls the kids when she leaves work, but did not do that. The PI said she came out in the parking lot and did a lot of looking around like she was looking for OM. she then got in her car and sat for a little while before leaving. Then she all of a sudden took another route and went back to her work before heading home. When the W got home she immediately came up to me and gave me a kiss. (very unusual). After talking with the PI again last night he told me that he will be here today along with 2 other people that work with him. His exact statements " I am going to put an end to this"

After my W came in and gave me the kiss, I finished cooking supper, cleaned the kitchen and did some laundry. aFter all of that I made sure that I found some time to play with the kids in their room with the door shut. This morning my w tried to get in the shower with me. As soon as I heard her open the door and pull back the shower curtain I shut off the water and got out without saying a word. If my w was being sincere with that I would be like any other man and stay in there and enjoy it, but I know that she is only doing it to keep me strung along or to apease me. Also this morning my w left a note in my lunch box that said "I Love You", and left me a voice mail at work saying " I will be thinking about you and I love you". These messages come everyday on my phone at work, and I believe that it is to keep me from looking at what she is really doing.

What kind of 'baccy are you smokin?

Do you WANT to end up with an OC?

With what I am going through maybe I out to be smokin something. This bulls!@# would drive anyone to smkin or drinkin. Today and tonight I feel will get really interesting.

It would just make you feel worse in the morning.

And the plot thickens: Just found out that the OM is parked beside my ww at work today, and we all know what happened the last time that happened. My ww called and said she would be going to the bank at lunch time. Well see. This is going to be a very interesting dya and night with me not at my home and the kids with me.

You just reminded me of one of the other posters here who accidentally discovered his wife and OM doing it in one of their rental properties. He didn't know she'd be there. He went in and caught them in the act. All he did was pick up all their clothes, walk out into the street, and drop them there, and drive off. Well, he did a lot more later, but that's the best exposure I've ever heard of. Just a thought...

I'm sorry, HF. It sounds like OM is planning to make a "deposit." I hope your PI catches them. In their case, the expression "with their pants down" can even be literal. More power to YOU.

tl

HogFan:

You are planning to go with the PI tonight as LG has suggested - correct?

this will add to the shock and awe as catperson alluded to.

btw - her activities and actions before you going out of town with the kiddos is very suspicious. Stay with the plan.

Oh! you can bet if OM shows up at my house or the PI gets them at a hotel, park, etc. that will definitely happen.

If something happens either at lunch or tonight they are going to get caught. My PI has two other people coming down tonight to help with this case.

I am staying with the plan. They are going to get busted tonight, and then all he11 is going to break loose with exposure. I am not going with the PI, but I am going to leave my kids with my mom and bring her car back and be in town. I also have my neighbor across the street which does not like my wife watching my house and ready to video.

Enough about her.

Are YOU ready for this.

You need to polish up those big brass cajones today.

DDays are HARD. Steel yourself.

Is PI taking pictures. If hard evidence is what you are looking for, make sure you get it. That or appear in person after PI calls and informs you. Bust it yourself with a camera.

Agree that DDay is tough but there is a bright side.

The power paradigm will suddenly switch to HF side of the equation as soon as this is out in the open.

All of a sudden you have OM by his cajones and you get to have him dance on your hand. Dont forget the Educ Board - OM embarassment and family shame should be on the agenda.

Shoot get a newspaper reporter in the act once you have the evidence you have been seeking.

I am more ready for this than anything I have been ready for in my life. I want so bad to put and end to this bulls!@#. What are you thoughts/feelings to something happening today/tonight? I have been wrong before during this, but my gut is telling me that something is going to happen and it is not going to be something good.

PI is taking pictures and video. There will actually be 3 cameras and video players watching this thing today.

If OM show up at my house I thought I would call a county sheriff and have them show up at the house with me, and have it all documented in a report. I would call the sherirr and tell them that my wife is having an A and the OM is at my house. Can you please meet me at my home while I confront OM and my W.

I was thinking to call OMW and have her meet me there as well. I just have a strong gut feeling that something is going to go down. You can bet that OM knows I or the kids are not goin gto be home tonight. And if he shows up why on earth would he be there without me being there (WE ALL KNOW). My conversation with OMW would go like this "Mem I caleed you several weeks ago about what is going on with my w and your h and you did not believe me. Do you know where your h is right now? Her answer. No mem he is at my house with my w and I am not there but I am on my way would you like to meet me there to see for yourself what is really going on?

One thing that happens to the betrayed is that they've been gaslighted (lit?) for so long, they question EVERYTHING they do.

You've been given "gut feelings" for a reason. Once upon a time, man needed it to survive.

Think of your gut's intuition as a warning bell that an STD could be on it's way.

Is that a good enough reason to trust it...even IF it's wrong?

I would think so.

How about this, your gut instinct is telling you your kids young minds and hearts are in jeapordy...isn't that a good reason to trust your gut...even IF it's wrong.

I think so.