Thanks for all the suggestions. We have actually done a lot of things together and are both very active. Lots of hiking, camping, renovating house, cooking together (he loves to cook as much as I do). It's just that so much of what he REALLY loves has to do with football. I mean, he coaches twice a week, plays football twice a week, plays volleyball twice a week, goes to gym every day at lunch, and then wants to walk in the evenings(if he's even home). Like the energizer batteries never run down. I used to go from time to time, but being a football wife never did excite me very much. Many of his friends' wives have gotten to the point at this age where they say enough is enough. Thanksgiving dinner is for family, not playing football. My H has had four knee surgeries and two shoulder surgeries. Think the sports should tone down a bit?