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Oh heavens...bring the dog. I have a dog too. They can stay in crates.
What a GREAT IDEA.....

And how healing for you two to be together during this time.



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This is Zoe

She's about 32 pounds of blue heeler and terrier. Spoiled rotten. Loves everyone.

If you are serious, I can do this. My email addy is
cinderella4mb at yahoo.com

I know you can figure out how to make that work.

As far as I am concerned, I can make this work on Christmas weekend because my children will be home on New Years day and I have to work Monday - Wednesday of that week.


BTW, I am no size 4...more like a 14. (my divorce diet weight loss wasn't permanent)

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BTW, I am no size 4...more like a 14. (my divorce diet weight loss wasn't permanent)
Doesn't that just suck.....

Hey now, we love each other for the perfect people that we ARE because G-d made us just how he wants us to be...

Ok, I don't truly believe it either... kiss


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Well, it could be worse...

I would like to shed some pounds but it hasn't happened yet.

But, I am the most beautiful me that G-d could have made....and I don't need makeup or a tan or the latest, greatest clothes for Him to love me or for me to be worth His love.

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Merry Christmas to all goddesses! Happy holidays to goddess Queenie, I hope I don't forget anyone.

:happyholidays: :wavingsanta: :MerryChristmas:

Cinderella and Chai, I wish you good luck with your projects. smile I will see if I can find something fun to do, I got inspired by Cinderella's sparkling scarf.

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thanks Why. Same to you.

Cinder, size matters not. Well, maybe on some things (diamonds come to mind), but not with fellow Goddesses.

I'll email you.....


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6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

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Okay, Goddesses, time to check in. Do you all have everything ready for the holidays? Sparkling clean home, warm and welcoming, food bought and ready, old sweats thrown out, nails and hair done, breasts perky, smelling good, pumps ready?

This is where the rubber meets the road.

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Originally Posted by believer
Okay, Goddesses, time to check in. Do you all have everything ready for the holidays? Sparkling clean home, warm and welcoming, food bought and ready, old sweats thrown out, nails and hair done, breasts perky, smelling good, pumps ready?

This is where the rubber meets the road.

My answers are:

Ha!

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Yup!

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Currently under siege by an allergy attack? I can't stir up any more dust at present. It will have me out for the entirety of the holidays if I do. faint

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Check on all but the perky breasts!


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6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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Originally Posted by goddess B
Okay, Goddesses, time to check in. Do you all have everything ready for the holidays? Sparkling clean home, warm and welcoming, food bought and ready, old sweats thrown out, nails and hair done, breasts perky, smelling good, pumps ready?

This is where the rubber meets the road.

Sheesh, just reading the list made me tired. sigh
Well, let's see; I just got back from AZ, so I completed shopping this evening, which means I get a D- there.

Um, the house, she ain't ready, but it's MOSTLY clean - B-

My house is ALWAYS warm and welcoming--A+ + + + + + (a la Christmas Story)

old sweats, um, hmmm, well, I plead the 5th

Toenails are a pretty pink--A+ ( I don't do the fingernails, but they are manicured and nice)

Breasts are as perky as possible for this 36 year old--they are quite nice, though, if I do say so myself, and since I'm the only one who is around them ever, I'd have to say so myself. We'll call that a B+ (or if size matters a C+ rotflmao)

I smell good, yes, thanks for asking.

Pumps, well, no, since I was doing the aforementioned Christmas shopping--tennis shoes. I guess that gets me a D- again cry

Now, I'm gearing up to bake some cookies with DS tomorrow and begin preparing the Christmas FEAST. Then, after DS goes to bed, I'll wrap his presents (that Santa has so graciously provided) and then sit back and relax...


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SL, you are so funny.


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6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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I have everything bought but my mom's gift. Actually she and I haven't exchanged gifts in years. Her flaky memory and my budget make that acceptable. So, all the buying except some groceries is done.

I have had an allergy attack and am not at all happy. I am doling out orders to my children tomorrow. They have to get some stuff out of the living room so we can have our annual hot dog roast in the fireplace. The wood should be dry enough. I'm looking forward to it - unless it further shuts down my nose.

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LOL, SL. Remember - my kids are grown and out of the home, and I have been off work for 2 weeks. Makes it a bit easier to do the goddess thing.

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That's cheating!



:MerryChristmas:

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LOL, Cinders - it sure is!!!!!!!!!!

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Ok, so I am in goddess mode. Nice dark wash jeans--trouser cut, lovely blouse, pretty sweater, nice makeup/hair and such, cute little slippers on. Gearing up to make some cookies with DS, when he arrives home very shortly now.

The house is becoming more of a wreck as family arrives, so I'm marking that off the 'to do' list. It's a losing game...

Happier than I have been in a long time, even though I'm flat out broke at this point--LOL.

Now, all I have to do is prepare the cookies for Santa and try to stay awake to spy him as he places MY gifts under the tree... wink



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Believer, you are such a Domestic Goddess. Martha Stewart has nothing on you girl.


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6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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cinder,
Check your mail...


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12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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my sweet pooch went out with me while I did some clean out work in my car. She got covered in pricklies. I guess I gotta brush her and bathe her. Wouldn't want her stinky through the holidays.


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sigh

censored again....I promise I didn't say anything worthy of censoring. I don't even remember what I said. These filters are really strange. Oh, well.....



Who was as well decorated as their tree?

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