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Re: Wife and I are separated, how can plan A/B wo
pomdbd3 #2204237 02/02/09 02:01 AM
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She already knows about it. Me giving her details that aren't really details anyway is not going to change anything. It will only ruin my chance to monitor what is going on further.
Re: Wife and I are separated, how can plan A/B wo
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So I am putting this situation in His hands, but how He will work in the situation is very dependent upon my wife. I will hope, I will wish, but I will not make the mistake of assuming things are going to work out. I am doing what I need to do legally. Revealing emails is not going to be beneficial regardless.

Zambo, revealing those emails to the OMW could very well blow up this affair quickly. At the very least, it will hasten its death. God cannot help you much if you are intent on helping the affairees HIDE the affair. Your actions ENABLE the affair. You become an accessory to the crime by hiding this intel.

The point of snooping is not voyuerism, but to use the information to bust up the affair. If you have the intel, then you should use it for that purpose.

Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. Ephesians 5:11



"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Re: Wife and I are separated, how can plan A/B wo
MelodyLane #2204536 02/02/09 01:37 PM
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It has already been exposed to her. She doesn't care that they remain in contact, she is very deceived.
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