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Re: In a Pickle....can someone please help
idey58 #2211007 02/11/09 09:38 AM
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Yay for good lawyers! That's great!

I keep telling my H that the karma bus is going to be driving overtime to make up for all the sleazeballs who have abused him over the years. Including our own families. Still waiting, though... wink
Re: In a Pickle....can someone please help
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Originally Posted by Seabird
Unless you're in a state with very, um... I dunno how to phrase this the best way... Very progressive ideas w/re to family law, I'd have to think that the courts would take a pretty dim view of forcing your son to be exposed to a live-in arrangement between your XH and this OW who helped bring about the end to the marriage.
Some places might. Or they could care less. In Canada, they won't even allow you to raise the issue of adultery in custody hearings. In fact, I have heard of adulterous letches stating that they can provide a better home for their children because they have a second income. Not sure if this actually worked or even if it was a factor, but I know it's been used.

If you can get a statement in your agreement, that is great. Given what another poster is dealing with right now, this is probably your only chance to have some say in who your child resides with.
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