My answer was: Hope is the power that gives us the power to step out and try!

end of my text!

OK, you still haven't said anything. Text her at work and tell her you need to see her. This time don't be so nebulous. make a concrete date for after work, to read your letter. She is obviously telling you she wants you to make the first move. She has given you two opportunities. Shes wondering when you are gonna get the hint? You should have told her you wish you were there with her. QUIT BEATING AROUND THE BUSH. SHE IS READY FOR YOU TO MAKE YOUR APOLOGY.

I sent her a txt last night! She still not responding! It was late! my text says:

I need to see you tomorrow! I want to read you something, Can I stop by home? Just for few minutes.

End of message.

Im wondering is she is thinking, or didnt get the message yet because was to late. do you think she is thinking? What happenend if she doesen't respond?, what happened is she says no? What should I do?
Do you think after the huge and beautiful flowers with my note I Really Miss You that she is going to receive today it will change her mind to say yes or she will respond?


I knew that aftyer this mess she started smoking, that why she is going to the backsteps and think? should I met her there? or just show up in the backsteps like a romantic movie? what do I need to do? text her again? I am so nervous right now, her silence make me think a lots of things.

Waiting for your comments!

Thanks

Should I send her an email to her Work?

What you think?

She didn't text back "no". So its full steam ahead. She seems to be communicative. If she is remembering looking at sunsets with you, she is remembering good times. Your text is on her phone. If she didn't want to see you she would have texted you back, or she won't be there tonight. She is probably thanking God that you are asking for this. When you go, after you read the letter. SHUT UP. and let her respond. Don't say anything until she speaks. She may yell, she may threaten, She may cry. You may cry. But don't say anything until she does. Your job is to sit there and take it, without getting impatient or mad. Do you think you can do that?

Can you explain me that again please, I guess Im so nervous, I didnt receive a NO, she still hasnt respond my txt!

Im sorry I get it NOW! have two read your notes 3 times!!!!! ok, so I will just go, Im thinking to approach her when she is outside in the back steps going to smoke, what should I say? because she didnt say YES or No? What should I say if she says what Im doing here or something? what should I say going up the steps and she will see me?

Because she didn't say "no", that means "yes". If she doesn't respond, everything is OK for you to go over there.If you do go over there, do not just blurt stuff out.

Sit down with Olivia and go over what type of cookies you want. I suggest that you buy one or two boxes of every kind. But don't just say you want one of every kind. Ask her about them. Make her tell you what every kind of cookie is like. How many come in a box? Can I freeze them? Ask her "what happens if I open a box and find a snail inside with the cookies? Do I get to keep the snail?" Make them laugh. Ask her which ones she likes and which ones her mom likes. Have some fun with her in front of her mom. Make her remember how close you all are. This will relax all of you. If Elizabeth goes out of the room, ask her how her mom has been. If she says "ok" (because some kids don't talk much when asked a question), say really? Which gives her another opportunity to elaborate. If she is sharp and likes you, she will be in your corner on reconciliation (very important). Take your cue from Elizabeth. Watch her and see if she is impatient. Or if she is relaxed and enjoying you being there.

Don't go up to the back steps. Go up to the door. You want to go inside. My last post is how I would handle it. But you know her better. If you go up to the back steps and there is tension, communication will suffer. You want Olivia there initially to relax the situation.

GOT IT!!!

After I knock in the house tonight and she opens the door! How should I respond if she asked me something like: What you doing here? or I didnt tell you yes come here?

also, if she let me come in, we can't start talking until olivia goes to bed! so I just sit down in the coach and wait? or I go close to Olivias bedtime? I heard from Elizabteh's mother that she pack my stuff and is sitting there in a box in the living room! how I should react when I see my stuff packed? How does she is going to feel or said if I see that?

She will probably have Olivia answer the door. She told you she bought you a microwave, Olivia wants to sell you cookies. She will know why you're there But if she asks you why you are here (she won't), just say "Oh, didn't you get my text?" She will know why you're there. Tell her you want to read her something. But first say you want to say hi to Olivia,and order the cookies. Don't over think the situation. You need to relax. Reach out your hand to Olivia to lead you to where her cookie stuff is. If you are with Elizabeth, grab her hand and bring her along. If she pulls it away, you have some work to do. She may not. This meeting is about taking risks.

When did she tell you your stuff was packed?

Yes, go close to Olivia's bedtime. It's hard for me to believe that Elizabeth will not want to consider reconciliation. You don't throw away years together, without trying to work it out. I thought you owned the house together?

I just got a text message from her:

No-not today-- Why don't you call me after ten tonight?


End of message!

Now what I do? My head is driving me crazy and spinning around!

No, I rente my house and I moved into her apartment! she is renting

Should I respond her text back? what do I need to do? maybe she will change her mind after she receive the flowers?

Her text message:

No-not today-- Why don't you call me after ten tonight?


End of message!

I dont want to chat over the phone! what do you think?

Well, at least she isn't telling you to get your [censored] out of there. Let her get the flowers. Did you speak with the delivery boy? I just wonder what she is doing until 10:00.

Text her and tell her what you have to say, needs to be done in person. Ask her when she will have the time?

She always work with olivia in her homework, feed her and read at story! Olivia usually goes to bed around 9:30! No I didnt speak with the delivery boy yet! On my way to the flower shop! I will have my computer with me, so I can see your post and reply to you! My mind is drive me crazy! Please dont leave me alone today! Thank you!