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debanne, did the OW tell you personally that she knows he is married? Did you hear this from her lips? What EXACTLY does she know? She was likely lied to and contacting her can expose the lies.
Have you verified INDEPENDENTLY that she is not married?
Have you exposed the affair to her parents?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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No Plan B.
Plan A.
Expose
Meet his ENs
Avoid LBs
Yes of course speak to him. Through speaking to him you can meet his ENs of conversation and admiration. You can also invite him to do fun things with you and then after he's turned you down you can tell him what a great time you had and too bad he missed out.
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Debanne, how are you doing?
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Debanne, it helps people keep up with you if you stick to one thread. I saw you started a new one, so I'm bumping this one back to page 1 to make it easier for you to continue in your original thread.
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