Thanks for the prayers Karma. I need them. Luna, JT, Queenie, SD, Cinder, and all the rest (I know I missed a few - sorry, brain just isn't 100%) thanks for checking in.

My atty and I compared WHs signature today with the one on the doc and it is definitely his signature. I remember the bank lady let me take it home for him to sign. The date was not on the signature page, but on the first page of the doc. I believe I took it home for him to sign, then took it to the bank and she filled in the date etc. I now have to prove that he was home one of the weekends before or after, so we are asking that he submit his company expense reports and credit card reports for that time frame. My atty and I also talked about how WH will not submit anything that shows how much money he gave Miss Mullet. My atty says it's like he is basically saying it's none of our business, so I guess we have to get a little tougher. He just keeps saying it was a loan and she paid him back. This is going to get ugly not to mention expensive.

Amazing how this started because of his A, and I'm the one having to defend myself. Not sure what happened here.

My time is going to be taken up for the next few days due to the IRS audit, so I may not be around for a while. I try to read while feeding chaibaby though so that I can keep up with threads.


Be good....

Prayers and more prayers being said for you.....I will be praying overtime.

You ROCK CHAI......

Your L ROCKS.....

and G-d WINS over EVIL.....

Isn't awesome how our prayers hold each other up and we become pillars of strength when we need it most.

Such a GODDESS

Thanks Queenie, Cinder, Luna and others.

My atty assured me this morning that we are not getting slaughtered. This whole thing has become about him not wanting the business and me defending myself against his ridiculous charges. The infidelity has not even been brought up as far as I can see. So he didn't want the business that I started 5 years ago? Well I didn't want him to tell Miss Mullet he was D'd and live with her and support her behind my back either, but for some reason that doesn't seem to matter. I feel like I'm going to lose this battle that I didn't even ask for.

Just a little depressed today.

gotta go continue preparing for the audit....

Chai,

Honey you are bound to have some ups and downs during the heat of battle. Take a rest & then get back to the game because you are going to come out ahead.

It sounds to me like this is just giving WH the time to show his true colors & he's doing a fine job so far! This judge sounds pretty on the ball, so let the WH spew whatever he likes,,,it's just going to blow back right on to him!!

I understand the feeling you get when hearing about what the WS wanted or didn't want,,,,,,,,,, :twobyfour:. One of the classics from Drac that always comes to my mind is how *I* "cost him his relationship with the HO" at one point!

HEELLLOOOO!! McFly!! You are MARRRIED to ME,,,, you are supposed to be having any other relationships!! And, as if I am supposed to CARE about your losing her??

Waywards = Stoopid

Keep the faith, darlin! You are doing to be just fine!!

Oh, we so need to sign this man up for total body tweezing - to be performed by some big hairy man-hating woman in some dirty icky room using dirty, rusty tweazers. And, he will have to undergo it regularly because regrowth is itchy and scratchy....and it is perpetual total body tweezing. No part of his putrid body will be left untweezed.....nose, armpits, back of neck, gender-specific equipment region, hairy fat rump, abdomen, pectorals, beard....all of it tweezed and retweezed until he is permanently hairless.

No, we need to secretly arrange for him to be castrated with a rusty spatula.

Thanks Bugs and Cinder. Everyone here has helped more than they know.

Is there anyone else out there whose WS turned so hostile and stooped to such low levels? I'd like to hear from you if you are one of them. I remember Jennifer telling me that she was working with a couple where the WH tried to drag the BW through the mud, and it made recovery really hard. I can't imagine that there would even be a chance that anyone could recover after something like this.

I guess I have 90 more days. My understanding is that there will be a trial and it will be over.

Chaibaby had a very bad day and I'm so tired. The rehab says DD is not quite ready for him, so I may have him a few more weeks. I need another break.

Let's see, I need to add forgery to my list of accomplishments. Gross neglect, cruelty, frivolous conduct, and forgery. I wonder what he will get me for next week.

Will they let me take my laptop to prison with me? Do they even have internet there?

Wonder how we can contact Lorena Bobbit?

After all this can't you charge WS with something? ANYTHING?

Karma,

We've listed adultry as the cause in my filing for Legal Separation. My atty keeps telling me that this is a no fault state so it doesn't matter anyway. If it doesn't matter, then I don't know why I have to keep producing paperwork. And now I'm looking for witnesses and a handwriting expert.

I'm trying to trust my atty, but I'm having a hard time. I just have so much invested at this point and can't afford to switch to another one.

I actually meant separately from the divorce.

Like..harassment or something of that nature.

Hmmm....I wonder if idiocy is considered to be a crime?

To be honest, if he was the trigger for the IRS audit, is that punishable if it were done for hateful, spiteful reasons? Especially, if there is no finding of wrong doing? Hey, it would be wonderful if it was determined Sweet Chai friend is ruled to be owed some money.....not owing.....OWED!

And, one more thing, cuz I hate this guy,.....could he be assessed her accountant fees if he is the trigger for the audit and it is found to be totally unneeded and frivolous?

I personally would NEVER want to be on Cinderella's bad side.

You are one lucky woman Chai to have Cinders.....

Go get em girl......

Did you ever know a fair and beauteous princess could have SUCH an active imagination?

HI CL,

Sorry about your WS.

I am with Bugs...


...so, if you do what you are legally required to do..and not interfere too much... your WS's behaviour may turn out to be an asset!


Hang in there CL. You're doing great!


I am with you Queenie...

Cinder, have you ever thought of a career as a divorce lawyer?

I'm with the others - wouldn't want to be on your bad side!! Does your XH still have all of his body parts?

I don't think the IRS will tell me if he called. I think it's confidential.

Some days I'm just ready to give in and let him walk away with everything just to get him out of my life, but then my friend calls and reminds me that she did that and is now filing bankruptcy while her XH lives in a half million dollar home. She pounds on me constantly to NOT GIVE IN. It's hard though.

Anyway, back to audit prep and a fussy baby.

Hi Chai,

My email is:

Please let me know when you get this so I can delete.

Thanks!!

Charlotte