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I just talk big....I have to good a heart :RollieEyes: to be a divorce lawyer.  If I weren't so nice, I could be making lots better money. I did consider going to law school but didn't want to sell out that big a chunk of my life for something I didn't feel that compelled to do. Too bad you can't polygraph the guy and have that admitted. 
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Char
Got it!! Will email you....
BS - me 56
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12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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I just talk big....I have to good a heart :RollieEyes: to be a divorce lawyer. If I weren't so nice, I could be making lots better money. I did consider going to law school but didn't want to sell out that big a chunk of my life for something I didn't feel that compelled to do. Too bad you can't polygraph the guy and have that admitted. Okay, I have to take issue with that statement!! You CAN have a good heart and still be a divorce attorney. For example: Shiny has one of the biggest hearts I have ever known! The difference is actually caring about people and wanting to help them. The money is secondary. You don't get that often with attorneys in general, (hence all the bad lawyer jokes!!), but with him, you do. Yeah, law school is something I considered in the past as well. I haven't ruled it out yet, though, LOL! Charlotte
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Got it!! Will email you.... Ten-four. 
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BS - me 56
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12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Oh, I was wondering what happened!! I found it in my spam folder. Dang filter! I love it for the real spam, though. It rocks!! Charlotte
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Chai - go to bed!!!
I'll be praying for you tomorrow. Remember, the taxman farts too - just like all of us. They don't want it to be any more work for them than necessary.
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Cinder,
I'm going right now. Well, after I take the Psycho Pup out one more time. My goal was 11:00pm EST, so I still have 7 minutes left.
Forgot to tell you that a customer wants to fix me up on a blind date. A guy my age whose wife took off with her personal trainer. Looks like we have at least one thing in common. No dates though until after the D. I may not even be ready then. Or ever.
Nighty night....
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Yes, G-d forbid you give Dr. Head Up Posterior one more thing to use against you. "See, Chai's got a boyfriend so that makes what I did okay now!" I think I've found a solution for all BSs. THE SIMS 2. Make a sim of your WH, and (almost) drown him, electrocute him, have a ghost scare him, kill him by flies (if he steps over a plate that is attracting flies there's a low chance it'll kill him)...etc! Just trying for some therapy. 
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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 Kill him by FLIES!!! Some waywards are so putrid even the flies wouldn't have them.
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Y'all, Chai's audit is today. Please pray for her...and her accountant...and the auditor! All of them so that she gets through in good shape! She needs it!
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 Praying for favor for Chai.
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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Praying for you, Chai. Good luck.
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Chai, I am for you!
Me 48 XWAW 42 M 18Y
D day 9/14/08
Plan A&B for months
One false R
DS12 (my life)
DD23
D Final 5-14-09
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Thanks all. Day one down and so far so good. One more day to go.
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
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Thanks all. Day one down and so far so good. One more day to go. Alrighty then, we keep up the ers I'm thinking about ya. How are you DOING?
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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YIKES! You have to do it again tomorrow?
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More prayers for Chai, then!
Me BS 61
Him FWS 63
Married 40 years
D-Day 6/30/06
Still can't believe it.
6/08 Recovering nicely. Anything is possible!
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I can't help but think...what is he trying to hide? This just seems like a serious case of projection.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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I agree Karma. He's keeping the pressure on me to take the light off of him.  Anyway, the auditor has a few more receipts to look at, but if he doesn't find anything in the next hour he said there would be NO ADJUSTMENTS!!!!!!! SO THERE, WH!!! I AM NOT HIDING MONEY AND CHEATING ON TAXES!! I certainly hope that WH loses credibility with all of his false claims. 
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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