Excellent!

Just as we knew it would be!!!!!

Chai

He's GONE!!! I'm all CLEAR!!!!!! NO ADJUSTMENTS!!!!!!




I'm taking on the forgery charge next. I'm ready to take on any ol' thing that he can throw over the fence at me. As Queenie says..."keep your side of the street clean." Good advice Queenie. If you keep your side clean first, you have nothing to worry about..





I don't have to wear the striped jumpsuit!!!

Mazel Tov..... You deserve all the GOOD that G-d can bless you with after ALL that you have been through.

CHAI

DAHLING... It's NOT your COLOR anyway....

Of course you wouldn't have worn it.

AMEN!!!!!




HALLELUJAH!!!!!


So, which one of the following best describes those charges: libel, slander, perjury?

Great news, Chai. I hope all this venom your WH has been spewing at you boomerangs back on him. Maybe with your judge. Will your judge find out about the audit?

So glad the truth is coming out about who the loser is. Still, it's a shame you've had to put up with this added stress.

How is Baby Chai doing?

SD,

I'm going to make sure that my atty mentions it to him. The agent said that I was an excellent record keeper.

RTW,

Unfortunately chaibaby is sick with a cold. He has not slept in days and I don't know how much longer I can hold on. The other GP said that they would keep him two days, but they called for me to come get him after the first night. Said that they were exhausted. Don't I know. I've been doing it 6 weeks now. He just isn't sleeping more than 40 minutes at a time, and when he isn't sleeping, he's crying. He was actually doing that before he got sick too. He used to take his 3 oz of formula and sleep, but now he won't take more than an oz. then seems to be ready for more in an hour. Just cat naps in between. If any of you experienced moms out there have a suggestion, I'm all ears. I had one child - DD - and she slept from 8pm-8am starting at about 2 1/2 months. She was a breeze compared to this little guy. Of course, if you hold him he quits crying, but don't they all? Any tips appreciated....

I'm hoping you get some relief soon....I hope DD is doing better and that he soon is with her.

Could he be having lasting reactions from the drugs when he was born?

DON't panic. It's NOT forever. relax. they know when you are stressed and pick up on it.

Our first was awake permanently for first 6 months. I was travelling 60 miles each way to work. Leaving house at 6am returning at 7pm and get 4 hours sleep. One day I left the house, phoned in sick and slept in car for 5 hours in a car park. 27 years on, he appears to be getting lots of sleep.

You might try changing the formula, sometimes that works.

But six weeks is still early, and they really don't have their sleeping patterns down.

Hey all,

It's been a few weeks, but wanted to do a quick update.

Chaibaby is finally with DD in rehab. DD is doing very well there, and loves being a mom. I'm trying not to get too encouraged, but this may be what it takes for her. She keeps saying how much she loves chaibaby and how cute he is. She keeps him [censored]-n-span and is very protective of him. She won't even let anyone hold him. So funny. I just hope that she continues on this path.

And just when I thought WH had hit bottom when he wouldn't buy the baby a crib because I had him, well, he found a new tool to dig with. Now his atty won't lift the restraining order against me to take funds from a joint account to pay my bills. I'm in my slow season with the business, and I don't have enough to meet obligations this month. My atty has to file a motion with the judge for me to be able to do this.

Can you believe that? I could lose my car which means that I won't be able to take DD and chaibaby to doctor appts etc. and if I lose my condo, none of us have a place to live. The lows that waywards can sink to is amazing.

Scum Bag.... absolutely scum bag...

Here will have some splaining to do one day, on the karma bus.

What can we do to help, Chai?

Hey Queenie,

You all have helped me so much just by being here on this board. The support here has gotten me through a lot of rough patches. Just don't leave!!!!


Do you think waywards EVER think of the BS?????

>Do you think waywards EVER think of the BS?????

No honey.

Active waynerds are only capable of seeing to the tip of their own noses. Beyond that, the world is a smudgy blur.

I'm so sorry.

Well, I just came from my atty's office. WH has made an offer. It was so ridiculous that my atty didn't even bother to tell me about it. Seems he wants half of my retirement account - at it's value 18 MONTHS AGO!!!!! Sorry, but there isn't even that much in it now that it has lost about 60% of it't total value. Amazing that they even have the $%# to come up with something like that.

And WH and his atty refuse to tell how much money WH gave to OP. They say it isn't relevant.

Now we are going down another rat hole. They say they have found an account that I have with $100K in it. I sure wish I knew where it was because I sure could use it. What they found is an old account that was my mother's account with my brother and me as co-signers. That account was closed 2 years ago after my mother went into the nursing home. At $10,000 per month for nursing, the money didn't last long and she is now on Medicaid. WH's atty is so sure I'm hiding money somewhere. WH must be paying this guy a ton of money to go down all of the empty rat holes. What a joke this has become. In the meantime, my atty has to go to the judge to get permission for me to pay my bills out of what little is left in a joint account.

WH now owes several thousand in taxes. He no longer has any deductions since he has no home and no write offs from my business (remember, he didn't want anything to do with the business). So...we are filing separately and I get the write offs from my business loss and my mortgage.

I feel sad today. Sad that it has come to this. The financial impact is just devastating. And I keep feeling sorry for WH. Isn't that crazy? OP has sacrificed nothing and at this point he has sacrificed everything - marriage, family, retirement future, and his health. I hope in the end he feels she was worth it. All this, and if he marries her he will be Number 3.

Oh well, this too shall pass. I've been on this roller coaster long enough to know that. I guess we go to trial in May or June, so hopefully it will be over after that.

Chai - What can he be thinking? YIKES. He is still way out there. So sorry to hear that he hasn't hit bottom yet.

:twobyfour:

...Chai .. vs. .. stbxh

as viewed by the rest of us

I don't know B. We aren't millionaires, so I don't know what he is thinking. I don't want to keep doing this, but it's like he won't settle unless he gets all of the assets, none of the debt, and doesn't have to pay any support. I have no choice but to keep paying my atty to fight this. Like most waywards, he feels very entitled and feels that all of the blame lies with the BS. Honestly, I don't think he will ever hit what we on MB call bottom. If by saying bottom, we mean remorse, then it ain't gonna happen.