Is Chad still hangin' 'round?

I thought for sure he'd be gone by now.

Catgirl:
I am having a VERY hard time moving on because I resent the fact that OW got what I should have had. She got the baby, the H, the M, the lifestyle. She gets to grow old with someone. They did everything wrong and they get it all. I did right and I get the crap.


The thing is this your life with your was not a given because anything besides the divorce could have happened to him, an illness or death (God forbid) lost of that job that provided you with that lifestyle, were you robbed yes, but you have so much more than things that will turn to dust you have respect and love from your kids and family and friends.

Just because you think they got away they didn't both women and men know that can not be trusted and are not trust worthy and probably are talked about behind their backs.

And did you ever think that those who tell you how he is at home with his ow/wife that maybe they are trying to get you to move on with your life because he is not worth another minute of your time.

Plus there is a difference between being like and respected,