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H4L,
You have not been married very long and you just had a big bomb dropped on you. I think you need time to figure this out just like your W. If you can do a good Plan A, it will put you in the best place to decide what you really want when you have had a chance to really think about what has happened.
So think of this time as for you and your WW, not just time for her to get over withdrawal. This advice is spot-on. I need to remember this, too.
Me/WS 32
H 32
M 6 years, together 12
D-Day 3/8/09
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Practice this...when you feel helpless, it's a signal you are focused where you have no control. Absolutely awesome.
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