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OK... husband came in from work...he seemed fine etc. You never know with him, he can be one way one minute and another the next. Anyway, he came in put his work stuff up, walked in the other room, and turned his phone off, like he has been doing lately.
So, last night, I checked it, and saw nothing. Not sure if he is deleting things or whatever. Saw where I called him and his buddies called, vice versa but nothing major...So here I am, as always back at square one, feeling like I'm being silly about all of this. I hate this! What will happen is, things will seem ok for awhile, and then all of a sudden he will start displaying behavior again that makes me think something is up.... And then it starts all over again! Urrggghh!
Sorry, just needed to vent some! I'm sorry you're going through this. Its hard not knowing for sure. Just stick to your guns the best way you know how. When you start feeling doubtful, all the more reason to continue checking things out.
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Totally agree with Shimmy. Even when nothing's been revealed, it's still important to keep checking things out because it may not be an affair he's having. He might be having some sort of mid-life crisis or it may even be that he's reached an age and a state of disillusionment where he's wondering if this is all there is. He could be tired of his work; thinking about the things he always wanted to do and didn't; who knows? But it's wise to check out the affair business just in case.
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Lilly, Just another thing to consider. My WH had his OW's number programmed into his phone (he can't remember anyone's numbers) but had it listed under an alias name so I would not be suspicious. This buddy he texts or calls, could be an alias. I'm not saying it is but I thought nothing of it either, until I turned on the phone and found some not yet deleted texts and pictures.. Like everyone is saying here, trust your gut. My WH was the type that totally frowned upon A's.. And then he had one.
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